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I observe a lot its just my nature I pay attention to most things, I have noticed guys have become real beta men especially the younger generation. When I was back in my 20's I didn't wear my pants around my knees and I didn't act like the way they do today. Do you think our society is...

I guess you can say I've suffered some damage being with a BPD which has made me a lot more aware I don't ignore red flags. I have noticed a lot of beta males with fairly decent looking women, I find with myself women seem to be scared of me, I run into the bold ones that are not scared to talk...

I didn't know how to make a subject a little more descriptive. Why is there so many damaged women out there? A girl I was chatting up and getting to know is now suffering from a mental break down things started piling up on her she's not doing well. Her ex husband is an ass**** she's been...

I got fired at my job because of a co-worker I was involved with, don't schit where you eat, I worked at my job for little over a decade, I was a reliable and well skilled employee that held a supervisor position. Never will I ever get involved with a co-worker at work, I work with an all guy...

The guy my ex is with looks like a ghost she's slowly killing him, all I can say he looks horrible. He was a healthy young man before he met her he had everything going for him, its all gone now. She was cute he wanted her she latched on him, he was thinking with the wrong head, today he's...

The one I was with hated her father her mother wasn't a strong figure in her life either, the red flag for me I watch for in other women if they have a phucked up family life I'm not going to proceed any further. Her father is a cheater, she absolutely hated that, she didn't like guys that were...

The biggest mistake you can do is dump them you want them to dump you, if you dump them it triggers their abandonment fears in turn they will make your life a living hell. How to I know? my life got turned upside down, you will see a vindictive side of them you've never seen before. She ran me...

I'm a 5'9"guy, large framed guy it has some advantages and disadvantage, I don't have the body builder V shape my hips and legs are big no way I could ever wear skinny jeans. I intimidate people because of my size I don't mean too but I do, but I do like the fact I'm built the way I'm not many...

Quit thinking with the wrong head it will get you in trouble when you dealing with co-workers.

Nope never feel sorry for them, be angry at their parents that phucked up their daughters or son's life. The girl I was with is smart she's educated, she's attractive. If it wasn't for her father that wasn't a good figure in her life she would be the perfect woman. She's screwed for the rest of...

You are right about the Beta males and BPDs my ex is with the biggest Beta man you can ever meet she snaps her fingers he jumps. The guy she was with before me he's a beta man. I'm not a beta man she found that out, her fingers would get sore snapping them I didn't jump, she turned really...

It is much easier for a guy to stay healthier, we don't age as fast, the girls I went to high school, holy phuck you've aged. I ended up way over weight, stress got to me I got myself back to where I should be its taken a long time and I mean a long time close to 4 years. Fat goes on easy sure...

No beard for me it grows in spotty, any of my female friends have told me they are not a fan of facial hair, I used to have a cop stache for years shave it off a good 5 years ago.

She's on SSRI meds no sex life with her.

I was going to say attractive I'm not that vain or full of myself. I've always had women nervous around me its been something I've been dealing with for years. I was involved with a BPD woman its killed my interest in women, now that my bull**** meter is cranked on high. Most available women...

Stay no contact, its been 2.5 years since I had any contact with my ex, I did see her briefly last year all I got out of her was giggles and shy eyes. I'm glad she's moved to another town there is no chance I will cross paths with her again, a BPD woman will never change.

Talking to a buddy about my ex and the guy she latched on to, we know the guy talking about why the guy she's with hasn't kicked her out. The ex has BPD I was with her I got tired of her BS I stayed friend with her, I gave her the final cut off 2.5 years ago. The guy the ex is with she's his...

The girl I was with ended up with a guy who's a true beta man he's the most insecure guy you could ever meet, pretty sure he's an NPD, she's BPD. When she was with me she said she goes after insecure guys, I didn't put up with her crap, she ended up with this other guy. Their relationship...

You wouldn't know she's a BPD till months into a relationship they don't drop that bomb on you right away they hide the fact they are BPD, the woman you were with just sounds like she has issues. Anyhow kick this one to the curb and move on, she's got issues you don't want to deal with.

The BPD I was with wasn't physically abusive, she did have a temper thou, she knew how to use words to cut you to the bone. I don't work with this woman I'm chatting up. After I heard her marriage was an ugly one that was the end of any intentions of getting to know her any further. In my...