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    BPD's can control their behavior…they choose not to

    BPDs lie through their teeth, its fun catching them lying, with my ex I liked looking her directly in the eyes, you know she was prairie doggin it with nervousness LOL. They are always the victim they can do no wrong in their minds not sure why they think that. As I've said when your dealing...
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    BPD's can control their behavior…they choose not to

    The big problem with these nuts is they will call the cops on you and say your being abusive, its amazing what kinds of stories they can fabricate that are not true.
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    BPD's can control their behavior…they choose not to

    BPDs love having power over people that's for sure, my ex gave up on trying to have power over me, it is all about control for them. When I met my ex I wasn't in the best shape my health wasn't that great. The stress I had at work I was burning out I looked awful, when she met me she thought she...
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    BPD's can control their behavior…they choose not to

    My ex was after me she just got out of a "bad" "abusive" relationship she was moving really fast, she wanted to be in a relationship with me I fell for he sob stories I helped her out. When she was with me she was hunting down my replacement I guess I wasn't giving her what she was craving I...
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    BPD's can control their behavior…they choose not to

    Fun isn't it LOL, takes a toll on your mental well being it eventually burns you out and you're left in a WTF happened state. Their lives are train wrecks they want to make yours the same.
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    BPD's can control their behavior…they choose not to

    I had the same problem I couldn't believe how vindictive she could be, wow I was so kind and caring to her and she wanted to see me pay for what she said I hurt her deeply.
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    BPD's can control their behavior…they choose not to

    We have to learn from our mistakes just the way it goes, I learned my lesson not to get involved with a girl that has issues, never been around women that have BPD didn't have any experience thought I could handle her issues, nope didn't work out that way. After being with a BPD your brain gets...
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    BPD's can control their behavior…they choose not to

    My ex claimed she had friends I only knew of one. She told me she hated the kids she went to school with as a child. She didn't make friends at work either I felt like a fireman putting out the fires. She didn't care if people hated her. She said to me how do you have so many friends and why do...
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    BPD's can control their behavior…they choose not to

    My life was total choas dealing with her plus I had work causing me choas as I took on responsibilities at work I wasn't getting paid for because management wasn't doing their job. Oh to top it off the ex didn't like the way I handled things at work saying I wasn't being professional. I'm rough...
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    BPD's can control their behavior…they choose not to

    I was close to my boss at the time while I was with my ex, my ex hated the fact I was close to my boss as my boss was an attractive woman. My ex uses her current BF for money one day she said to me I'm only using him for money, wow, no love there even thou she "claims" to love him but everything...
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    BPD's can control their behavior…they choose not to

    My ex was a high functioning BPD you couldn't tell she had issues until you started to get to know her, people as friends didn't know she has BPD its the people that she's really close to the ones she takes her mask off for that know she's troubled. You wouldn't know my ex has BPD as she's...
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    BPD's can control their behavior…they choose not to

    I was mad the ex went to a guy I knew, later I've discovered the guy is an NPD the guy is really abusive to women he thinks he's gods gift to women even thou he's not attractive. Now that he's been with my ex he's aged he's fat there is no hope in hell of him ever finding a woman. When she...
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    BPD's can control their behavior…they choose not to

    The guy she replaced me with isn't a very attractive guy she's a decent looking woman, he spent thousands of dollars trying to please her now she's living with him she will try get his house. I rejected her that's when she went ape chit on me, man did she turn mean, gathering things to use...
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    BPD's can control their behavior…they choose not to

    Yep my ex is a total control freak, the guy she's with now she snaps her fingers he jumps, her fingers got awfully sore with me I didn't jump to her finger snapping. When things started getting ugly between us she really pulled the victim crap saying I was abusive to her and I was being...
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    BPD's can control their behavior…they choose not to

    Mine didn't like the word NO she heard it a lot, I did stand up to her, the fights we had were intense, she was the one that instigated them, they happened out of nowhere, things were going along smoothly, bam she picks a fight with me, the drama with her was constant.
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    BPD's can control their behavior…they choose not to

    LOL isn't a BPDs temper fun lol, mine would get so angry at me she demanded that I give her an apology, she would lash out in anger at me then start getting all emotional. Its got to be their child like mentality because mine sure acted like a child at times. You will recover from being with a...
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    The other side of BPD

    I've never really run across guys that have or I suspect to have BPD, I think NPD is a little more common in men I know a few guys that have NPD they are pricks. If there wasn't NPD guys out there BPD women wouldn't have any guys to latch onto lol
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    Women clinging on to the last of their looks

    Women do have it tougher than us guys, women are always trying to keep up to the Joneses, when I first met her all her female friends are gray poupon types look to be high maintenance to the hilt , if you don't have a fat wallet they are not interested in you. Her male friends are in the same...
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    Women clinging on to the last of their looks

    A woman I know she's nearing 50 years old, I met her 15 years ago she was in her late 30s her husband is probably 8-10 years older than her. He's aging you can tell he's in his late 50s nearing 60, he's letting himself go. They have two children which they had late in life he will be 71 years...
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    Women and Birkenstock sandals

    Had a woman standing beside me today in a line must have been 50 I'm guessing, she wasn't ugly by any means she was bangable milf. She was wearing a pair of broke in gizeh's the smell of malt vinegar would have been strong luckily there was a breeze blowing lol. Women wearing crocs that's...
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