Women

[051AV]

I didn't know how to make a subject a little more descriptive.

Why is there so many damaged women out there? A girl I was chatting up and getting to know is now suffering from a mental break down things started piling up on her she's not doing well. Her ex husband is an ass**** she's been dealing with him for years. She had stuff going on at work that is compound the problems, nobody has really heard from her, I'm assuming she's sorting out things in her life. I feel bad for her, I wouldn't get involved with her as I sensed she had baggage and bitterness from her ex.

The girl I was with a couple years ago she's a BPD, she caused a lot of drama in my life, my life is much simpler with her out of my life. She will never change, she's got daddy issues ie she hates her father, she's also on meds for her mental health issues. As much as I liked her she's not worth having in my life. The guy she's with now is a beta people pleaser she claims to love him, what ever. I seen what she did to the guy before me, I see what she's doing to her current guy.

It seems like today's women have so many issues and baggage, it makes a guy want to stay single. After going through the crap the BPD I'm not into getting involved with a woman that has any kind of baggage.

I don't like to toot my horn, but I do get a lot of women flirting with me, I make women nervous its something I just deal with. Its the married ones that flirt or get nervous around me, in a way it makes me smile and laugh in another way I think to myself your married you shouldn't be acting that way. Hell I even make a woman I know is gay, she gets all nervous around me that makes me laugh.

The town I live in my selection of women are either jail bait or women that are in their 30s-40s that have issues and baggage. In my early years I put career and learning the trades over chasing women, now that I'm 40 any woman close to my age are damaged goods. Going after 20 somethings I don't feel comfortable with that.

I don't see any value getting involved with todays women you have to put up with too much schit you are not getting much of a return on your investment.

 

[Desdinova]

Why is there so many damaged women out there?

Society has granted them the privilege of being entitled and empowered. Unfortunately, women's brains aren't wired in a way that allows them to make good use out of this privilege. Once they've been alpha-widowed, they become permanently damaged goods that have difficult pair-bonding.

That is the short answer.

I think to myself your married you shouldn't be acting that way.

Women who are married aren't necessarily undamaged. They may have been alpha-widowed before they found their husband, or they married a man who doesn't hold their interest because of his inability to be confident or interesting. Women also don't have the ability to let logic override emotions. Instead, their emotions override logic.

You need to realise that women don't think the same way men do. They will primarily do what feels right before they do what makes sense both morally and logically.

 

[wifehunter]

Oh, the crazies thread again!!! Lol!

I keep my distance, but laugh and joke to insane proportions. ..

...is probably why the crazies like me so much...ok scared now

 

[RangerMIke]

Feminism has created a society which operates counter to human nature. Since women are emotional beings it is very hard for them to reconcile what they are being told with what they are feeling. To them, anything that 'feels' right, is right. This is why they go out and do marches, and wear pink pvssy hats, and dress like vaginas... they think that bvllsh!t actually accomplishes something.

They are told that they should want a nice guy that will change diapers and kiss their @ss. But they desire the bad@ss alpha male. As a general rule, there are always exceptions, chicks want a strong man that will stand up to them and lead a relationship. But if she finds something like this, her friends tell her "He doesn't respect you... he's using you... he's treating you like a doormat... etc et al... so she does not become sweet and submissive, which will keep a strong Alpha male, and he goes away.... Then she hooks up with a weak man that kisses her @ss, they get married squeeze out a couple of kids... she can put up with this for a few years, but then she gets sick of living with a man that dries her up like a desert.

 

[wifehunter]

Feminism has created a society which operates counter to human nature. Since women are emotional beings it is very hard for them to reconcile what they are being told with what they are feeling. To them, anything that 'feels' right, is right. This is why they go out and do marches, and wear pink pvssy hats, and dress like vaginas... they think that bvllsh!t actually accomplishes something.

They are told that they should want a nice guy that will change diapers and kiss their @ss. But they desire the bad@ss alpha male. As a general rule, there are always exceptions, chicks want a strong man that will stand up to them and lead a relationship. But if she finds something like this, her friends tell her "He doesn't respect you... he's using you... he's treating you like a doormat... etc et al... so she does not become sweet and submissive, which will keep a strong Alpha male, and he goes away.... Then she hooks up with a weak man that kisses her @ss, they get married squeeze out a couple of kids... she can put up with this for a few years, but then she gets sick of living with a man that dries her up like a desert.

Yep, feminism needs to go away.

 

[Dingo]

We are all damaged...

Some more than others...

Sarge on...

 

[wifehunter]

We are all damaged...

Some more than others...

Sarge on...

Is only scars and memories now. What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger.

 

[Urbanyst]

The current modern culture is toxic and dysfunctional.

Just focus on MONEY. Fixes most problems.

 

[SmooveMooves]

So women are damaged while men run around spreading thier perfection? Society as a whole is experiencing degradation, which is actually an opinion depending whether or not you see tradionalism as the standard for a 'good society. In reality, things are just changing as a result of ideology technology and values. These things effect everyone, not just women. Your damaged too.

Sarge on

What he said.

 

[bigneil]

Injecting mercury-filled vaccines in babies the moment they are born, feeding them dead GMO baby food from a jar (when mommy could have just mashed a banana or avocado or rice), raising them in day care, feeding them artificial flavors and colors, prescribing Ritalin when they are 5 and Prozac when they are 10 probably doesn't help.

 

[devilkingx2]

Injecting mercury-filled vaccines in babies the moment they are born, feeding them dead GMO baby food from a jar

don't bring that anti-science conspiracy nonsense here.

 

[devilkingx2]

have you ever noticed that coincidentally, the nicest most pleasant women always have boyfriends? that's another part of the reason. all the best ones are taken usually

 

[wifehunter]

Injecting mercury-filled vaccines in babies the moment they are born, feeding them dead GMO baby food from a jar (when mommy could have just mashed a banana or avocado or rice), raising them in day care, feeding them artificial flavors and colors, prescribing Ritalin when they are 5 and Prozac when they are 10 probably doesn't help.

How about radio active fluid for a bone scan?

 

[bigneil]

How about radio active fluid for a bone scan?

One of the worst things you can do. And they call it a health screening!

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Cultural decay and the rise of ideology.

 

[wifehunter]

One of the worst things you can do. And they call it a health screening!

So, that's what's wrong with me

 

[btownbuck2012]

We are all damaged...

Some more than others...

Sarge on...

Women are damaged.

Men are experienced.

 

[051AV]

I guess you can say I've suffered some damage being with a BPD which has made me a lot more aware I don't ignore red flags.

I have noticed a lot of beta males with fairly decent looking women, I find with myself women seem to be scared of me, I run into the bold ones that are not scared to talk to me but they are taken. Ya most of the good women I've come across are already taken, start chatting them up you find out they have a BF or they are married.

I can tell if the girl has a beta male boyfriend if I sense jealously from the guy, happened today, looking a decent looking younger woman her BF noticed grabbed her hand and pulled her away, they were not holding hands before I gave her a quick look. I guess he was scared I was going to steal his girlfriend lol. Most of the younger women go after the ****y loud guys the ones they figure they are bad boys but its all an act, try act tough. They are the ones that think they can intimidate me but they are full of talk and no action. Don't screw with a guy that has big hands and broad shoulders.

One of my closer female friends, no we don't bang each other, she's told me she's thought about it, but anyhow she's such a feminist she repels guys. She wonders why she can't find a man, she would eat a beta man alive, there is quite an age difference between us probably 23 years.

In my observation over the years I watched couples where the guy is trailing behind the girl like a puppy dog she's bossing him around, I think to myself grow a pair. I stand up for myself I don't let people walk all over me, I don't seek confrontation, if I'm confronted I decide do I want to drop it or face it.

I'm enjoying my life I don't want to deal with a bunch of BS just to have a partner in my life, I want to live a drama free life, I'm living it now. The only person I answer to is myself. I've found today's women is extra b*tchy, they will nag you to death, I worked with women for over a decade I took the leadership role in the division I worked in, the nagging I got was unbelievable. The BPD was one of the worse offenders because we were close. One of the woman I worked with she was above me in power but not in seniority or experience she would butt heads with me but she finally seen I saved her bacon so many times she stopped fighting me and we worked together. I really liked her but she was taken I tried wooing her away from her BF that she was with, it wasn't a healthy relationship they stuck it out. Her and I were opposites I was planned and coordinated she flew by the seat of her pants she was happy I was there for her she ended up having a mental break down and changed careers.

I like a strong woman I don't usually go after the air heads or the ones that don't have the nads to challenge me, I also like the ones that have the smarts, if you can't think for yourself that drives me nuts. The BPD was what I was after minus her having BPD she had brains, she was attractive and she would challenge me I couldn't walk all over her.

 

[Masculinity]

It seems like today's women have so many issues and baggage, it makes a guy want to stay single. After going through the crap the BPD I'm not into getting involved with a woman that has any kind of baggage.

I think feminism is a big influence on these women. A lot of them are behaving like men or even meaning men under the belief it'll bring them afloat.

Seriously, I don't see why any man would get married with all these negericr factors in women at play.

 

[The Duke]

Why so many damaged women?

One reason is too much access to cahk. Every failed relationship creates baggage they internalize and never fully get over. This effects how they bond with future men. Most never address their issues, they just replace one with another thinking the grass is greener. It never is. Eventually the emotional weight of all those failed relationships takes its toll, they begin to crack, and the crazy comes out. Limit the amount of cahk women are exposed to and you will see less damaged women.

Its no different than a solider that did too many tours and saw too much trauma in Vietnam, Iraq, Afghanistan, or wherever.