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She put me through the BPD ringer she wanted to see me pay for abandoning her so she cause a lot of trouble for me at work it turned ugly she turned mean. When I started researching BPD traits the fear of abandonment is a big one it will cause a BPD to go nuts which she did. I don't hate her...

Ya no kids thankfully she never wanted kids I didn't either. I've moved on with my life ya I think about her time to time but all I have to do is think about the bull**** she created in my life that changes things. I'm around healthy non BPD women again, trust me BPD women can scar a man for...

We haven't spoken in two years she's moving to another town with the guy she's with, she is a BPD, I don't know why the guy she's with hasn't realized she's killing him. Living together full time will finish him off for sure I won't be surprised to hear through the grapevine of friends he's...

I wouldn't ever get involved with a single mom, no matter how good looking she is, its not worth it, who wants to be a father to another mans kids. I was chatting up a woman close the same age as myself I'm guessing 42 she has teenage daughters, soon as I heard her ex was abusive that was the...

Chatting up women you are not interested in not sure if you guys do it, I do. It puts a smile on the woman's face, I've been talking to a woman I guess she's early 30s found she's married and has kids, she's cute. She works in a department store she notices me right away when I walk in and...

I'm one of them I've always traveled on my own, I'm very much an introvert I don't like being around crowds I do things on my own. In my younger years I never went to parties, when I was in high school I was focused on what I wanted to do for a career. Out of high school I started learning as...

Once you've gotten a BPD out of your life keep them out of your life, ya your mind thinks maybe I can change them the second time. Nope they don't change they are fvcked up you can blame their parents for that one. The girl I was with tried to change her life no matter how much she tried it all...

It all comes down to security, she latches onto a beta guy while she still has looks, as she ages and loses her looks she doesn't have any worries about her beta man fvcking off on her. I've known women that I grew up with they were really good looking in high school you look at them today you...

The guy that latched onto the BPD, told me about his life, he's the middle child, came from a well off family, by the sounds of it his father wasn't a strong figure in his life. Money was a big factor in his life, still that way today, he's always flaunted he has money, he thinks money can buy...

As I said I knew this guy long before the BPD, he was a heathy man, as their relation progressed he started to change, in the beginning of the relationship he was happy get, 6 months into it his mood changed he became antisocial. Started to see the physical effects he looked awful, his friends...

Oh she lied alright the stories she came up with saying that I was abusive to her and other stuff it was all bull**** and she knew it. I was the most supportive person in her life at that time I helped her a lot. Today I wonder what would have happened if I slept with her I might be behind bars...

The BPD girl was good at what she did so I gave her the schit jobs that I didn't want to do, she was excellent on the computer. So I piled the work on her, she wanted to do the jobs that she wasn't good at man o man was it ever hard to tell her she did a ****ty job. Nobody in the division would...

When I met her she was about month out of a relationship, I actually had another woman I was contending with which was my newly appointed boss who ended up having issues with her fiancée. My boss and I formed a close friendship she was happy to have me by her side. The BPD absolutely didn't like...

You know I wanted to sleep with her something bad she was very attractive at the time 8 years younger then me. She was a 9 out of 10 for me she was everything I was looking in a woman except one thing she's BPD. I never had any dealings with BPDs she was my first, things were good for the first...

I'm new to the forums, I haven't had the most exciting dating life I've always put learning/education first over anything else its been like that since high school 22 years ago. I'm in the trades I have a lot of skills under my belt always worked outdoors getting my hands dirty. I took on a...

You know I can't stop thinking about the guy with the BPD woman its bothering me how bad he looks as I said its been nearly 2 years since I seen him last he looked bad then he looks 10 times worse. There is nothing I can do to help him, he won't listen to me, as I said he's most likely scared to...

I knew this guy for a few years before he met her he was a great guy he was healthy he looked his age you could tell he was a guy in his 30s. He starting dating her then 6 months into the relationship I started to see the changes. A year into it the changes were noticeable, as the relationship...

I bumped into the guy that stole the BPD girl away from me 3 years ago all I can say is that man is fvcked. He's in his mid 30s but looks like he's 50 he's a train wreck, having her in his life for the last 3 years is taken the toll. There is no bouncing back from that, once you've aged yourself...

Must be a Scorpio woman lol, all you can do is let her come to you.

There was something you did long before this little episode she displayed this has been brewing up for a while, how old are you two? Just let her stew on it, I wouldn't contact her, if you've haven't had any big arguments she feels things are going too smoothly so she's starting some drama. If...