I see bpd thrown around here loosely...well this one I have been dealing with for 4 months is the real deal comorbid with npd... on meds, has psych she sees, highly sensitive, super entitled, rage attacks, abusive, manipulative etc you name it.. let's put it this way she has a guy that bought her a 250k house and pays all the monthly bills on it.
Long story short we fd hung out slept together everynight kissed held hands cuddled etc..but I know she is delusional and would place me as a bf in her mind then switch to we are just dating then swtich to just friends then switch back to dating etc..i was giving her rides to where she needed to be and got the food..got away pretty cheap overall considering how many dudes wanna fk here and be with her. I even told her the other day I would never marry her. But nonetheless we do enjoy being around each other and we like each other and have both expressed that.
She is a predator and I have dealt with someone like her before for a long time so i was ready. She even told me one night that she thought I have npd...i don't have it in a strong pathological sense but its up there. Maybe a 7.5-8 out of 10.
We end up fighting 3 days ago..the day before I was in the salon with her for literally 7 hours when she said it would be 2. She paid for her own so i was there just chilling. The next day we go to get her botox which she also paid for. Later on I sat I'm going bowling with my friend come with me and u can just chill for an hr...all the sudden she says she sick this that and even says she might have munchaseum syndrome lol...i was like you do have that..she then said go do your thing today (like she's giving me the day off from her lol)..then i said i was with u in the salon for hours and u can't even come with me for an hour? She says i didn't have to be there and that I was lucky that I was there with her lololol...she was having a hard time putting that sentence out because it's a falsehood and she knows it lol.
She then proceeds to start hurling insults and says I need her more than she needs me which is not true considering she gets foods and rides and affection from me while she only provides me with someone to be annoyed at. She says she can get this guy that guy i say go ahead do it I don't care...then i say she likes hanging out with weak pvssys like so and so amd she kind of agrees with me lol..then calls me cheap then i say of course I'm gonna be cheap with a fake person why wouldn't I be amd ask how much she has (she's broke) ..then i go on to say I know she's fake and projects a false persona and I say I'm fake like she is with me...she says leave..i say ok...i go to the kitchen grab the $60 of food i just got grab and walk out flash her about 2k in cash to shut her up mind u after she shoved me from behind with her weakness lol..i then dump the food in her trash bin..leave text her i dumped the food she says I'm disgusting. I then say she's abusive I'm done forever say she can go with whomever, fighting over bowling and salon is nonsense etc etc..then nothing for the last 3 days between me and her.
I honestly have things I have to do..she is a piece of sh1t...peoole always say oh it's not personal she is messed up..idgaf it's personal and people with bpd and npd can go f themselves becausee they are cowards and slimeballs..atleast I'm a self aware narc so I realize things..she doesn't and i don't care what trauma etc she had been thru bpds are the worst people and they deserve to be depressed and miserable f em.
Long story short we fd hung out slept together everynight kissed held hands cuddled etc..but I know she is delusional and would place me as a bf in her mind then switch to we are just dating then swtich to just friends then switch back to dating etc..i was giving her rides to where she needed to be and got the food..got away pretty cheap overall considering how many dudes wanna fk here and be with her. I even told her the other day I would never marry her. But nonetheless we do enjoy being around each other and we like each other and have both expressed that.
She is a predator and I have dealt with someone like her before for a long time so i was ready. She even told me one night that she thought I have npd...i don't have it in a strong pathological sense but its up there. Maybe a 7.5-8 out of 10.
We end up fighting 3 days ago..the day before I was in the salon with her for literally 7 hours when she said it would be 2. She paid for her own so i was there just chilling. The next day we go to get her botox which she also paid for. Later on I sat I'm going bowling with my friend come with me and u can just chill for an hr...all the sudden she says she sick this that and even says she might have munchaseum syndrome lol...i was like you do have that..she then said go do your thing today (like she's giving me the day off from her lol)..then i said i was with u in the salon for hours and u can't even come with me for an hour? She says i didn't have to be there and that I was lucky that I was there with her lololol...she was having a hard time putting that sentence out because it's a falsehood and she knows it lol.
She then proceeds to start hurling insults and says I need her more than she needs me which is not true considering she gets foods and rides and affection from me while she only provides me with someone to be annoyed at. She says she can get this guy that guy i say go ahead do it I don't care...then i say she likes hanging out with weak pvssys like so and so amd she kind of agrees with me lol..then calls me cheap then i say of course I'm gonna be cheap with a fake person why wouldn't I be amd ask how much she has (she's broke) ..then i go on to say I know she's fake and projects a false persona and I say I'm fake like she is with me...she says leave..i say ok...i go to the kitchen grab the $60 of food i just got grab and walk out flash her about 2k in cash to shut her up mind u after she shoved me from behind with her weakness lol..i then dump the food in her trash bin..leave text her i dumped the food she says I'm disgusting. I then say she's abusive I'm done forever say she can go with whomever, fighting over bowling and salon is nonsense etc etc..then nothing for the last 3 days between me and her.
I honestly have things I have to do..she is a piece of sh1t...peoole always say oh it's not personal she is messed up..idgaf it's personal and people with bpd and npd can go f themselves becausee they are cowards and slimeballs..atleast I'm a self aware narc so I realize things..she doesn't and i don't care what trauma etc she had been thru bpds are the worst people and they deserve to be depressed and miserable f em.
