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    advice needed- grabbing my balls

    she didnt answer or call me back, should i ever try again or just forget her?
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    advice needed- grabbing my balls

    ok so about a month ago i had just gotten my own place and these 2 girls came over to hangout with me and my roomate. One im pretty sure i coulda nailed but i didnt becuz we were all drunk and on other stuff so i didnt want it to seem like i got her messed up to take advantage of her so we left...
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    Recommended Books for DJs?

    Psychocybernetics is the best book if you're trying to change yourself Dr. Wayne Dyer is my favorite author
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    Sapiens Boot Camp 2006 Sign Up!

    I want to sign up. I've been here for years and haven't done a bootcamp and I just want to expand my experience so here it is. I just turned 21, I have my own apartment, I am a healthy non smoker and I'm a bartender and all I've done is worked in restaurants all my life. Sign me up.
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    If you are socially inept or introverted, use canned lines

    psychocybernetics elaborates on this. You absolutely can go from introvert to extrovert through practice of "disinhibition", which is basically blabbing ur head off until you get used to it and learning what works from trial and error, and then finding the balance in between. some tips...
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    just got my own place!!

    hi
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    just got my own place!!

    I was flirting all night, in fact so much i think i kept myself out of the friend zone enough for one more shot, i just didnt isolate dont u see, i understand i missed not just one opportunity that night, but probably thousands of opportunities. I can only kick myself in the head so many...
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    just got my own place!!

    I just got my own apartment with a roomate, and at 21 i feel im set up for entering the prime of my sex life. We had these 2 girls over we knew from work and we were all gettin drunk and they hung out til like 5 am but NOTHING HAPPEND. My roomate was kind of quiet and I didnt know how to...
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    my biggest AFC moment - need advice

    she called me last night and asked me if i still wanted to be her friend, i said "ya ill be your friend but im kinda busy now ttyl" she said "call me whenever"... should i be her friend or should i back away ?? btw ya im just looking for a f*** buddy
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    my biggest AFC moment - need advice

    okay so I've been seducing this girl I work with for awhile, when she first started all the guys were hitting on her and I just kept my cool and let them sink themselves which they did. I talked to her a few times on the phone and she was always hanging out with guys or an ex she says is just a...
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    Go back to the basics

    wow i must suck at writing tips if "cell phone opener" and "going to the mall" got 10+ replies and i didnt even get one
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    Go back to the basics

    It seems this forum is becoming more and more technique oriented as time goes on. The posts about inner game, changing perspective, self-image, and generally how we think are becoming scarce. I don't want to turn this into a "this forum is dieing" rant but to say the least we can admit it's...
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    buying cell phone need help

    Im looking to buy a new motorola razr but the cheapest i've been able to find is bestbuy for 200 bucks ( i want to keep my current contract w cingular). Wheres the best place/sites to buy new cells at ? Is there a cingular phone with higher megapixel camera than the razr ?
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    Just Be Yourself

    fyrefly yes i LOVE that movie haha. This is a great post
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    social retardation

    ok so for no good reason at all last night (i was at 711 and got this strong sensation to go buy a book on personality) I went and picked up a copy of Psychocybernetics, as I'd seen it mentioned on this forum many times in relation to personality and inhibitions. I couldn't put it down and I'm...
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    social retardation

    I have a problem and its getting worse so im askin for help. I have NO PERSONALITY. I'm not stupid or anything I just struggle to maintain conversation. My problem is I cannot think of anything to say other then asking questions to keep the other person talking. I can't even talk to my...
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    I have SERIOUS mental issues

    okay let me ask this question, what is the focus/thoughts when the ball is in your court to speak ?
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    do you ever pretend your someone else?

    i think were one bad joke away from having this added to the archive as the corniest thread ever. too bad cuz it was a good topic.
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    I have SERIOUS mental issues

    This is true for many people but not my situation. Working in restaurants for years has made me comfortable in any situation. I don't fear rejection nor do I feel embarassment. Any nervousness I feel comes from my belief that I'm going to say something warped and that makes me push people...
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    do you ever pretend your someone else?

    I do this alot and always have. Especially movies or if i see someone who is a social master I will immitate them. It definately gives you unbeleivable confidence. Ex - I saw Mr and Mrs Smith before going to a party and I really felt like I was brad pitt at the party. I was 10x more...
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