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Im almost shocked at just how good this advice is in this thread. You are being nurtured and cared for with these quality words of wisdom. Do not squander it with self doubt. Only thing I could add would be, hit the gym, hard. Its a real confidence booster. Not just the muscles or anything...

My first reaction was one of her plates took your spot. Unfortunately, as hard as it might be...NO, I would not reach out about the event. Look, being nice to a girl, showing interest, and being affectionate is not going to turn her off. Yet, it just might not turn her on either, if she never...

A term to help you not only in life but with woman as well. "Because" Start adding because to your statements. "I will make a huge come back!...BECAUSE I am committed to reading more material and hitting the gym again 6 days a week." These are declarative and clarifying statements. They...

Post some of the things you learn and the connections you make as you learn them. As well as, how they pertain to your situation. Start to give yourself your own advice. Do it aloud either here or in a sperate journal thread. GIve back to the community in this way. Also, it will help us help...

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Excellent post

Even if that authentic self is blue pill beta mentality? -------------------------------- Also, if success is measured by contentment and being happy with oneself, than, why pursue or grow, in spirit, action, or understanding?

With respect to @bigneil. This is one of the great single posts I have ever read here.

In case this is a real post,(because it stinks of the lonewolflegend),Ill try to help. Unless this woman pursues you, I would completely move on. Date other woman never look back. Just so we are clear, her pursuing you, would feel like this...The way a man would date a woman. She calls to ask...

I rescind my previous statement. Restaurants are a whole different energy than a corp office. Take her out after next shift and then take her home. Act fast, because the sharks are circling.

Not a great move. Regardless of rationalization. Whatever, make it work now. Add at least five more girls you are at least communicating with in the next ten days as penance to your weakness. Im serious, but also kidding.

Just an FYI. And I think this was perhaps another @Espi quote. At any rate, another gem of a line to drop if you have the frame for the follow up...It has worked well for me twice. HB " You are not getting laid tonight you know" You " Well, maybe not by you." ------------------- HB " We are...

19? I think this is an attention grab. The moment you reciprocate it will wither.

In this particular case.... I agree with some form of what @Konduit is saying.

A woman invites me to eat her out, Im happy to oblige, then, I am going to f^ck her too, twice. Casue thats how bad she is going to want it when Im done. I love eating box! Dude, you were playing hard to get text message games, with a girl you already got wet and was ASKING you to go down on...

Random thoughts this thread conjured up- Take pictures. I have noticed I always think a girl is hotter in person than in photos. Maybe its brain chemistry or just that typically photos make everyone look worse...but, the next day, that 9 you swooning over, aint so 9 anymore....AT ALL. The very...

Its performance anxiety for sure. You are young and healthy and probably do not need drugs to help out. Happens to everyone it seems, here and there. What sucks is, once makes it worse, casue you start to think you wont get it up next time either. And it can be a spiral. Think of it like a...

My 2 cents on this quarrel between what is otherwise respected and respectable members of this community.... When a girl bitches, moans, complains, sh!t tests, flakes, insults, or disrespects....what do we almost always advise we do or say to her..... NOTHING. Quite resonance I think its...

I was merely trying to offer advice, from, as I sometimes try to do, a different angle. There is no way this guy is equipped, nor should he, at the advice of us, reconsider his engagement based on this thread. Although, the advice given here, is incredibly sound, im sure there are a million...

The way I see it: Pretty much all the advice here is good and valid from its own viewpoint or perspective. Yet, I think we need to get real here, you're not breaking an engagement for this, even if you should or should not. So thats out. You need some damage control, for your own emotions and...