I had it! I blew it! Can I save it?

Black Sunshine

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Good news... I got my credit report and I am good to go... what does tat have to do with anything... my overall confidence... I want every aspect of my life to be exemplary.... AWESOME!
 

salinechow

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Thanks Salinechow! Will do! l am just getting back in the game. One of the things I realize is my confidence is shot after a few years of taking care of my mom, and the aftermath, I forgot about myself... I will make a big time come back.

A term to help you not only in life but with woman as well.

"Because"

Start adding because to your statements. "I will make a huge come back!...BECAUSE I am committed to reading more material and hitting the gym again 6 days a week."

These are declarative and clarifying statements. They help us outline and contract ourselves to our goals. They demonstrate self cognition and leadership. ESPECIALLY when you write them down.

"I am so into your body." White noise to a girl.

"I am so into your body because your smooth caramel skin makes me want to know what it going to taste like later." She is turned on.

"You look great tonight." Huh. O yeah. Thanks. Barely looks up from her phone.

"You look great tonight because of the way your necklace fits so perfectly with your outfit and draws my eyes towards your gorgeous necklines" Puts phone away, blushes, touches said neck lines, feels feminine, pretty and a smidge vulnerable.

"I am committed to making more money this year." That's great. Aren't we all.

"I am committed to making more money this year because I have to much idle time and Id like to have a new (whatever thing) by this time next year." "I will be successful because I am committed to find another job in the next 2 weeks."

Give me some back. You have nothing to lose by practicing here.
 

Black Sunshine

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going to be a better man, because all I really have is me and if I want other people to like and respect me, I have to like and respect myself... whew!
 

Black Sunshine

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I can do this... You look great in that photo because of the way that gorgeous platinum hair of yours cascades down around your tanned shoulders is such a beautiful contrast......???? Oh man.. loll!
 

Black Sunshine

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I am going to be a better man, because I will make sure that I have taken care of all areas of my life, and will reflect that in my confidence, and interactions towards others...
 

Black Sunshine

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Wow, you look great in that dress because it really shows that you really take care of yourself...
 
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