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Well some of you got it right when said she would show her crazy side by the 2nd date.. heres the story.
I went out with the girl I took back to my place after the bar last week and in the beginning she was great, had a great sense of humor and was really into me. We grabbed a drink and then went back to my place, this girl was basically begging for it however I knew this girl likes to play hard to get and so I gave her a little piece of her own medicine. After teasing and making her moan without even going near her underwear, she then starts the "were not having sex" line.. ohh the classic line where women like to be in control of sex. I responded to her by saying she wasn't ready yet and I like a woman who is ready for me. Of course she tried validate her reasons on why shes the best and how i'll "be the one who's sexually frustrated". I laughed it off and continued to raise some heat by getting her going. All of a sudden she says "what if I told you I wanted you to eat me out", I paused and looked at her by saying she would have to do her part in order for that to happen. Suddenly a switch goes off and the craziness comes out. She asks me to repeat myself like I had said something so wrong and disrespectful, I looked at her and asked if she thought this was a free buffet? She got up and asked for some water, she clearly wanted to sober up.
After grabbing her a glass of water and making sure she doesnt drive home (a man has morals). She gives me a bratty attitude and acts like a child. Of course at this point all I can do is feel bad for her instead of putting up a fight. After 15 minutes she decided to leave by ignoring my request to sober up and heads right to her car. 30 minutes goes by and I am in bed watching tv, I notice a car running and the lights are one, I also see the blonde who was just in my apartment laying her head right on the steering wheel. At this point i am thinking she passed out. As I made my way to the car she looks at me with crazy Taylor Swift eyes and asks what I was doing. I told her I was concerned and asked why she is still in the parking lot. She said she needed to sober up first but still refuses to come back inside. After I left I went back to bed and then 15 minutes later I hear the same woman...errr.. girl still in the parking lot but this time she is trying to back out, it's not working. I go out there and she asks me to help her back her car out, I told her she was drunk and to get back inside or I am calling a taxi. She refused and started to yell at me, as much as I wanted to tell her off I kept it inside and stayed mature. She later decided to come inside with her muddy shoes and use my bathroom. She then asked me why I made those comments about my "selfish response" of eating her out. I told her I wasn't one of those guys who is going to do everything for her just because she is some model. She replied that she was only kidding and I called out her bs. 30 minutes later she left and drove away.
The next day she blew up my phone expressing her deepest apology and revealed its the reason why he ex broke up with her (you don't say..). She asked for a second chance and so I gave it to her (bad move). We get together again and spent the night in the city running away and at this moment I was ACTUALLY HAVING A GOOD TIME. Built up some sexual innuendo and chatted a little bit like two normal do when getting to know each other. At the end of the night she decides to tell me that she doesnt want to kiss me and that "it will lead to something". Dropped her off and left.
The next day she calls me crying cause she got in an accident.. doesn't know how to file a police report and at this point I am just amazed by everything. Me being a man took charge and helped her, she then needed money for a rental and suggest to call some dude that will do anything for her.. I call those guys "orbiters". What is an orbiter? someone who will do anything for someone and hoping they will come around and be with them. Anyways this was my cue and I told her good luck and left.
The next day again lol. She texts me telling me that I am "a great guy" but is not the type of guy she is looking for. She then goes on to tell me how I am "too direct" and shows signs of "****iness". At this time without telling her how crazy she is, I told her I absolutely agree with her and good luck.
3 days later.. she texts me saying she wants to be friends. Now most guys would say "NO WAY" or "This girl is crazy" or my favorite line "She'll put you in the friend zone bro". Absolutely however I believe that no one puts you in the friend zone but YOURSELF. When a girl wants to be friends, she wants you still in their life, why? cause they value you but don't trust themselves with you romantically. So what do you do? you take the friendship but you play neutral. You don't chase, you don't be available and most importantly you have limited time if you do hang out with her. You tease a little bit, you be playful but you end the night how you want it and you demonstrate that she hasn't qualify to be liked more than a friend. You turn it around and demonstrate that shes in YOUR friendzone.. not hers. That's how I still get laid.
Well some of you got it right when said she would show her crazy side by the 2nd date.. heres the story.
I went out with the girl I took back to my place after the bar last week and in the beginning she was great, had a great sense of humor and was really into me. We grabbed a drink and then went back to my place, this girl was basically begging for it however I knew this girl likes to play hard to get and so I gave her a little piece of her own medicine. After teasing and making her moan without even going near her underwear, she then starts the "were not having sex" line.. ohh the classic line where women like to be in control of sex. I responded to her by saying she wasn't ready yet and I like a woman who is ready for me. Of course she tried validate her reasons on why shes the best and how i'll "be the one who's sexually frustrated". I laughed it off and continued to raise some heat by getting her going. All of a sudden she says "what if I told you I wanted you to eat me out", I paused and looked at her by saying she would have to do her part in order for that to happen. Suddenly a switch goes off and the craziness comes out. She asks me to repeat myself like I had said something so wrong and disrespectful, I looked at her and asked if she thought this was a free buffet? She got up and asked for some water, she clearly wanted to sober up.
After grabbing her a glass of water and making sure she doesnt drive home (a man has morals). She gives me a bratty attitude and acts like a child. Of course at this point all I can do is feel bad for her instead of putting up a fight. After 15 minutes she decided to leave by ignoring my request to sober up and heads right to her car. 30 minutes goes by and I am in bed watching tv, I notice a car running and the lights are one, I also see the blonde who was just in my apartment laying her head right on the steering wheel. At this point i am thinking she passed out. As I made my way to the car she looks at me with crazy Taylor Swift eyes and asks what I was doing. I told her I was concerned and asked why she is still in the parking lot. She said she needed to sober up first but still refuses to come back inside. After I left I went back to bed and then 15 minutes later I hear the same woman...errr.. girl still in the parking lot but this time she is trying to back out, it's not working. I go out there and she asks me to help her back her car out, I told her she was drunk and to get back inside or I am calling a taxi. She refused and started to yell at me, as much as I wanted to tell her off I kept it inside and stayed mature. She later decided to come inside with her muddy shoes and use my bathroom. She then asked me why I made those comments about my "selfish response" of eating her out. I told her I wasn't one of those guys who is going to do everything for her just because she is some model. She replied that she was only kidding and I called out her bs. 30 minutes later she left and drove away.
The next day she blew up my phone expressing her deepest apology and revealed its the reason why he ex broke up with her (you don't say..). She asked for a second chance and so I gave it to her (bad move). We get together again and spent the night in the city running away and at this moment I was ACTUALLY HAVING A GOOD TIME. Built up some sexual innuendo and chatted a little bit like two normal do when getting to know each other. At the end of the night she decides to tell me that she doesnt want to kiss me and that "it will lead to something". Dropped her off and left.
The next day she calls me crying cause she got in an accident.. doesn't know how to file a police report and at this point I am just amazed by everything. Me being a man took charge and helped her, she then needed money for a rental and suggest to call some dude that will do anything for her.. I call those guys "orbiters". What is an orbiter? someone who will do anything for someone and hoping they will come around and be with them. Anyways this was my cue and I told her good luck and left.
The next day again lol. She texts me telling me that I am "a great guy" but is not the type of guy she is looking for. She then goes on to tell me how I am "too direct" and shows signs of "****iness". At this time without telling her how crazy she is, I told her I absolutely agree with her and good luck.
3 days later.. she texts me saying she wants to be friends. Now most guys would say "NO WAY" or "This girl is crazy" or my favorite line "She'll put you in the friend zone bro". Absolutely however I believe that no one puts you in the friend zone but YOURSELF. When a girl wants to be friends, she wants you still in their life, why? cause they value you but don't trust themselves with you romantically. So what do you do? you take the friendship but you play neutral. You don't chase, you don't be available and most importantly you have limited time if you do hang out with her. You tease a little bit, you be playful but you end the night how you want it and you demonstrate that she hasn't qualify to be liked more than a friend. You turn it around and demonstrate that shes in YOUR friendzone.. not hers. That's how I still get laid.
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