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  1. salinechow

    Tattoos: Pride is NOT having any

    I also have no tattoos. Never thought much of it more, than someone's choice of footwear. Very few people care either way. Its all about your frame of being you. Also, OP, get a watch.
  2. salinechow

    How to maintain confidence when your struggling (financially)?

    This has to be a very short post, but dont perceive it as being curt. I have ties to the real estate business with an emphasis in Commercial. You will succeed, and it will be incredibly rewarding both in social contacts, and financially. Also, its an exciting get out there and do kinda job...
  3. salinechow

    Wants to be just friends. What should I say?

    Just in an effort for, and in the pursuit of camaraderie and learning... which post might you be referring to? Might it be the most recent post in which I deframed in an authentic plea for help on what to say to an EX-lover? If so, then you didnt read the whole post, perhaps, as you said...
  4. salinechow

    What do I need to change about my POF profile to get messages?

    A dentist and an orthodontist are going to have very different opinions on what good teeth are. Who cares what either of them say though, its the woman's opinion that matters in this situation.
  5. salinechow

    Wants to be just friends. What should I say?

    This is the clearest indication possible of why one should not text much. Totally lost the attraction you once had. You were avail. Lower value when you are to abundant. You are coal instead of a diamond. And you were probably boring at that,or, at least understimulating, unpolarized, and acted...
  6. salinechow

    What do I need to change about my POF profile to get messages?

    Okay. You asked for it. Put your big boys pants on cause we all come here for authenticity and honesty. True help is derived from hearing what we may not always want to accept is the truth. "Baaaby rutffffh !!" Sorry I had to. @Asmodeus Is %100 correct. You must get rid of that first...
  7. salinechow

    Wife attempted suicide, what do I do now? Please help

    In some respects, Touche.
  8. salinechow

    Wife attempted suicide, what do I do now? Please help

    Because we are a community of people who attempt to care and come alongside our brethren in times when they feel like they can turn nowhere else or want to turn here before or after other venues of consideration. You first statement was fine. Sometimes, short, harsh opinions are the best ones...
  9. salinechow

    I need HELP!! ASAP

    Again @Asmodeus thanks for the thoughtful wisdom. And thats my point. To me it is a bigger mistake to continue the weakness of pokes and prods. I want to polarize this situation in my life. At the time I feel both strong, and strength even in my weakness. I posted to ask the advice of a...
  10. salinechow

    When a plate starts to more frequently take a long time to respond?

    I have 3-4. Suddenly I feel like a slacker. And, I should. Especially with the resurfacing of oneitis. I dont live in L.A unfortunately, but.....I LIVE in NYC. Even better. :-)
  11. salinechow

    I need HELP!! ASAP

    Look, I think in some respects its takes a real man to show his vulnerabilities to his comrades. I believe your line about learning all the tricks will NEVER change your inner frame, it can help for sure, but real change comes from within. In this respect I admit, my inner frame needs work...
  12. salinechow

    She Cheated

    In case for whatever reason this thread doesn't go back to the death it might belong. LDR's dont work. Unless, they are not exclusive relationships. I dont just mean sex either. Just dating too. I did this with a girl and it was one of the most fun enjoyable "relationships' I ever had. We would...
  13. salinechow

    What is Oneitis. Define.

    Given my recent posts I thought this would be a good exercise for all.
  14. salinechow

    Oneitis, gym update

    Exact same thing happened to me actually, I think more than once. Gym is tough. These girls are daydreaming about you but then when the rubber meet the vag, they think" O god, now Ill have to see this guy all the time after I f^ck him? What if he sucks?" Girls, as we know disqualify and live...
  15. salinechow

    I need HELP!! ASAP

    Look, I am the first person to admit that alot of all issues and dealing with women and our relationships with them is all based in psychology and brain chemistries. Yet, there is a saying. "Its like love, you cant explain it." I could tell you all day long about the grand canyon, what...
  16. salinechow

    I need HELP!! ASAP

    @PairPlusRoyalFlush There is some truth to this. I know what I am. I practice radical honesty with myself daily. Again, though, the desperation I showed here, is quite different than anything I would show her. No what else I know, this particular wouldn't respond to blue pill beta sweetness...
  17. salinechow

    I need HELP!! ASAP

    I box. Heres my analogy. Which fight is always more interesting? The original bout or the rematch? I got her once, and we lost eachother once. I see no reason me and her cant try it again. I am not whatsoever afraid to lose again. I am way more frightened to retire without trying, if she'll...
  18. salinechow

    I need HELP!! ASAP

    I really do appreciate the care and quick responses from all. I knew no matter what the responses, they would help me. Okay. I framed up a bit here now. Had to sleep on it. Im already overly invested. In a tiny little message no less. Ridiculous. I just had a quick hit of those old brain...
  19. salinechow

    I need HELP!! ASAP

    Look, I dont care if this girl makes me make SS my f^ck!n homepage. Id rather loose her again to failure of action than p^ssy as$ inaction. I just need some strong responses to get myself in front of her. Ill get her into hers. I did it before and Ill do it again. (Just need to meet her close...
  20. salinechow

    I need HELP!! ASAP

    I cannot express my appreciation for your quick responses @Asmodeus . Yet, I truly feel equipped to handle her, us, this. Because its gonna be inside my frame. Also, in hindsight, I ghosted and NC her. I "knew" tehn I needed to. I trusted myself at that time, with the help of SS, that it was...
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