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Trust me, my mind has usually long melted before this moment. Just wanted to run the situation by the community before proceeding, the advice I get here has helped me out a lot in the past.

Hey guys, I have a quick question about a girl I recently reconnected with. I was seeing C for a couple months this summer when she told me she had to stop seeing me because things were getting serious between her and another guy. Fine with me, I went no contact and haven’t thought about her...

Thanks, I love the last line of yours. "When you are ready, you know where to find me." I'm not so sure that "maybe, maybe not" was the right move because she felt like I rejected her, but I wanted to play it mysterious and not so predictable. Gotta calibrate for each different girl is my theory.

Yeah man this is too much I'm not contacting her unless she reaches out at this point.

Cool, I have a couple of hypotheticals for you: 1. If she says she’s free, would you push for her to come to my place, or suggest somewhere else closeby (like froyo)? She seems to be hung up on going straight to my place. 2. What would you have said to that series of messages when she laid out...

So here’s is the conversation I’ve had with her today, my comments in brackets: Me: Hi —-. So I was thinking about our conversation this last Sunday. I’m not drinking today, let’s see if you can persuade me to sleep with you when I’m not drunk. Why don’t you come over around 8pm and let the...

Nice. I generally take the same approach. I'll let you know my results

Pretty much how I'm feeling right now

Cool, I can do that. Out of curiousity, how do you respond if she responds "I can't do today"?

That was very cool. I love how the tables turned when the guys were more impressed with Niki than the hot girl. Also, it was interesting that he caved and sped up the car at the end, but did it in a way that scared the girl. He gave her what she asked for but not in the way she asked for it.

Yep, I'm aware of the what the 12 day comment means. I suspect she is an attention wh0re because days before this text convo we made plans to hang out and she flaked. How should I play this going forward? Text her in a week or so and set up something, or just let her go? It's been 6 days since...

I tried bringing her back to my place after the second date (we went to a concert), she initially agreed but then said she had to go home because her mom was waiting up for her and she had to get up early (she's 18 and still lives with her parents). I was persistent nevertheless in trying to...

The Sparknote Version: This girl I've been seeing (haven't banged yet) assumed I was DTF (I am), and I played hard to get. She's been acting cold since, I suspect she's insecure and thinks I don't want her. I haven't communicated with her in about five days. Did I play this correctly, and what...

Just be patient and do it in person. It will be much better.

Hey man, Props for doing this challenge, it sounds like you've improved a ton and have great self-analysis of where you need to improve. Question for you- what do you usually do on first dates where you bang the girl?

What are your first date suggestions then? Usually I go for ice cream or fro-yo as a first date, it's cheap and quick.

It's really hit or miss. I wouldn't go to the festival expecting to pick up, because lots of chicks are there just for the music. But if you are having a really good time, it makes it SO much easier to get a number, dance, or hook up. I've done all three multiple times at EDM concerts /...

Thats hilarious hahaha. I think she wants the D

This. Is. Awesome. Needs to be a sticky or something.

I would love to know how your friends have banged 30+ chicks... I have a buddy who gets a decent amount of play from tinder, but they are all warpigs.