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I don't care about the FWB but the problem is I've never seen this friend group before. When me and R hang out it's always just me and her, so I'm not sure if I will ever get the chance to be in front of N again, unless by some random coincidence. That's why I brought up the Instagram route, I...

I don't think I explained myself correctly. She does not check ALL the boxes of my ideal girl, but she does check SOME of them (physically). Obviously I don't have any idea what she's really like, we've only spoken for a few minutes. I am just saying I am attracted to her and would like to...

Hey Guys, so I've been hooking up with chick (my FWB, let's call her R) but things have been cooling off recently. We were both going to the same music festival over the weekend, she texted me and we met up. While I was hanging out with her, I met her friend, let's call her N, who was...

So an update on this story... C reached out to me earlier this week to go out for dinner/drinks. Went out with her last night and had a good date. Thanks everyone for your help with the text game and keeping my head in check.

I don't think you messed up badly. You know you shouldn't have sent that text but it could have been much worse. I do think you jumped the gun by getting a hotel room (also, what's wrong with just bringing her to your place?). She obviously still wants to see you so you're in a good position...

She was extremely flaky in the past. Almost always late whenever we would meet up. But she's a very fun girl so I would put up with it. Historically I was usually the one initiating contact and asking to hang out, but she was usually responsive until things started going south. Waiting for the...

I agree with you 100%. Gonna put her on the back burner for at least a few weeks. Could I get your opinion on another situation with one of my plates? I made a quick thread about her in the link below. I haven't heard from her yet and it's been almost a month, I'm considering reaching out and...

I already reached out to her with option 3 and posted her response on the previous page. Dating her isn’t completely out of the question, she checks a lot of boxes for me but I would need to get to spend a lot more time with her based on her past behavior with the other guy. So you’d...

Thanks for this, I think you hit the nail exactly on the head with your analysis. Doubt the other guy is around and she may very well be looking for something serious. I'm not, so we will see. Would you reach out to her again, and if so, when?

Thanks for the analysis. I think the purpose of the line given in the book is to do a "negative takeaway," as you said, to make her seem like she is losing you. I think both lines accomplish that goal, but I'll use yours in the future. After I text her "OK" would you wait a few weeks before...

So she responded "I really can't Friday. My best friend s in town. I was serious" So looks like I am gonna next her.

Well I sent her exactly what I said. I'll keep ya'll posted.

Super weird response right? Thanks for the reply.

Okay guys, update here. Need some advice. I texted her up yesterday to ask her to drinks and I'm not sure how to respond. Here's the conversation so far: (texting small talk) Me: Nice, I bet that was crazy. Whats your schedule like this week? let's catch up more over drinks. C: (18 hours...

Thanks guys gonna hold off

Hey guys, I had a plate I was seeing earlier this year reach out to me out of the blue last week. She had temporarily moved to florida for a few months: Girl: Hey, it’s xx. I’m so excited, I’m heading back to LA today! Me: Hey, that’s great! Let’s hang out once you are settled in. Her...

*slow hand clap* Well said. I do think he did the right thing by being 100% honest. He burned the bridge but it was a plate who was playing games with him (sending mixed signals) and he’s more interested in the second girl. Especially if the first girl sees him there with girl number 2, that...

Yeah I'm getting the same idea. What kind of dates would you go on with a girl in this scenario? I have a couple parties to go to on Saturday that my friends are throwing and I'm thinking of asking her if she wants to tag along.

So as an update to this post... I texted her and we sent a few messages back and forth about what I should get my parents for Christmas. Today I just got a friend request from her on Facebook. Gonna look at my schedule this weekend and see if there's something I can invite her along to...