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Well the phases are kicking in and I'm feeling pretty pissed that she broke up with a text.the most rude and disrespectful way,really making it difficult to not give a piece of my mind and the fact that I went along with it and replied gave her closure making it ok for her.

Yea I hear where your coming from,I did the jumping from girl to girl when I was younger and I turned 21 just when I became single so I did all the stuff I wanted to back then and felt I had it out of my system including the bar scene. The thing that's nice about this being a ldr it aided in...

Yea I guess using that line was more of emotional manipulation pitty, she was avidly discussing moving out here with me but perhaps I became to pushy with it.

I understand now from experience that there's nothing more I can do,I've learned after many hard lessons that once a girl leaves once she always will so I'm accepting it's done for good,I'm just working on closure and acceptance and the fact that this is so out of the blue,I know that's woman...

At this point considering what she said i would assume I won't hear anything with the nc, so instead of leaving it all accepting and probably never seeing her again because of the distance would anyone agree to just say whatever I want kind of like an honest guilt trip about how it makes no...

Honestly it's not a case of oneitis it's just the out of the blue part and when we were together she truly was a quality woman,I pretty much lived on this site over the summer after my bpd ex, it does stink of the classic it's not you it's me line though. Either way I was respectful since she...

That's why I took the leap on this one she was a quality girl and that's not just speaking through rose colored glasses,or atleast up until now.

I was in that loop trying to figure it out. The counselor part is true she would occasionally see an abuse counselor due to her ex whom she has a restraining order against.

There's not much selection out here man,I'm still grateful for the experience she was a good girl and it showed me an example to set my standards to, not the trashy ex's I've had before.

Well I got a message today finally,we are over,said she's been seeing her counselor and has issues she needs to work on herself and she wishes me the best etc,didn't wanna be friends or anything,into the depressing abyss again,wish I had some People Around here to hang out with,guess all I can...

Well this escalated quickly, I appreciate all the advice and I will follow it, as far as searching for answers it's a struggle for me just the way my mind works guess it's why I'm good in the automotive field,anyways thank you and I will lay low.

Did you atleast tell her it's over lol? Like I said I could even go for a screw off so I'll atleast have a definite from her.

Oh I will most certainly not be drawn right back in after this, I was thinking a phone call would then make it so that I tried 100% just to know if she's dead or alive telling my family the story they say it just doesn't add up with everything she said just days before and she's not that type of...

Yea I was using guidelines this time and made sure she invested etc. but I guess it is what it is,Just wanna know if she's dead or alive,do you think she will even contact me again with nc being it's a ldr?

I played this one safer then my past relationships the biggest thing that's getting to me is the ghosting,I let her say the first I love you etc this just doesn't seem like her especially for her to have me connect with her child then pull away.

She is the submissive type,Tuesday was the last time we talked on the phone,she told me how her daughter cried about wanting me there and was gonna call me but then fell asleep,she apologized the next day and we talked a little through text then the following night no call then Thursday night...

Just real damn strange this girl literally did 5 hours worth of driving less then a month ago just to spend 4 hours with me when my cat died because she felt bad,that and the things she said just the other day and how close her daughter and I became last weekend just doesn't add up.

Thanks for the replies,I'm seriously considering so,kind of sucks since there's been no bs at all up until now,strongly thinking about calling her just to see what happens my family who has talked and met her say this is really not her and something must be wrong.

Yes she asked me to be exclusive,we are in a full committed relationship,I've become close with her daughter and we've met each others families etc,she came to my families thanksgiving last week and always supported my hobbies and even went out of her way to find me a good lawyer when I got a...

True,i usually drive to her more so,she even went as far as saying she thinks I'd be a great father to her daughter and mentioned us having kids in the future one day just this past week,would it be pushing it to call in the extremely rare case something legit happened or her phone is messed...