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  1. xstang77

    Lack of "connection" after some dates?

    Deffinetly as mentioned, save the Intellect for later on if things progress, and you don't have to be religious about waiting 4 days to contact afterwards, I mean obviously don't blow her **** up right after the date but sometimes acting to mysterious can hurt you too, almost happened to me.
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    Should I call?

    I'll explain, I'm out and I see a cute girl, I ask her friends what's the deal with her "oh her bf's an ass to her there taking a break" pretty much spoon fed after that, she's gonna talk to me about how much of an ******* you are to her for hours then I'll kill the poonanny. Your best move in...
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    Should I call?

    Taking "breaks" doesn't work, you pretty much gave her the green light for a 3 week Fvck fest man.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day 23 since I sent a text on Christmas Eve with no reply, have a date this coming weekend with some skinny artsy girl that seems atleast mediocre but lives about 40 minutes away, kind of early to set up but we'll see if it happens, it's something to do. Got hit up by a past slump buster asking...
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    How to raise/maintain high her interest level (Long Distance)

    I did 2 hours away and that was a pain Enough on the weekends plus splitting the hotel room every time. Also when they hit that unsure stage as woman do at the drop of a dime you won't be there to lock it down or stop her from shutting you out. If you do get involved in a rs stay mysterious and...
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    Got hit up for a 3 sum.

    True I haven't had once since I was 18, it was great I'm stoked.
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    Got hit up for a 3 sum.

    Hell if I know some **** just falls in your lap literally, I treated this girl like **** guess that's the secret, I beat it up, had her move her **** in, slept with my previous ex and kicked this girl to the curb the next day, my concern is going down on the looks scale.this is back when I would...
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    Got hit up for a 3 sum.

    so I've been dealing with some **** working on getting over a break up and this morning I wake up to a message saying " send a pic my friend and I want a 3 sum" here's the deal, this girl was a slump buster for me years back after my first break up and wasn't very good looking and a single mom...
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    Should I call?

    I used to be somewhat like this and it got me the longest relationship I ever had 4 years. It puts you in control and in power but in the end it'll push away the girl that's down for you and you'll regret it when you see the light and end up alone. It is true what they say girls love *******s...
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    Ex is moving out of town

    Ok this is getting redundant. Your so interested in a bpd chick, you can have mine she still hits me up did for over 7 months that I ignored her. Tell you what hit her up send her a text tell her of your love For her and have her come Fvck you and cheat on her bf and promise you the moon and the...
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    She expected too much?

    This is golden, your killing it today, thank you for explaining this, certainly helped me and a few other guys in similar situations I'm sure.explains my situation to a tee especially when she told me on the phone a few days prior that it scared her how strong she was feeling about me and the...
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    No contact day 24

    Yea the last option deffinetly sounds like me pertaining ex's, glad to see there's woman out there who think like me.
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    No contact day 24

    Was she completely silent during the whole 8 months aside from recently?
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thank you guys for all the support, I do have severe oneitis, girl was an 8.5 and treated me like a king and it looks like everything on the market is a downgrade. Wish I had friends like you guys around here we could go chase Pvssy together, all the bars Around here are either filled with...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    She went from saying she wants me to be the father of her current kid and us having one together to ghosting for 4 days then dump through text, saying she's not over her past and not ready to move out here and it's all on her yada yada. Guess it screws with me because I'm used to that kind of...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I'm just stuck on how great of a score she was and how short lived it was to end so abruptly with no closure. It's crazy lonely and so difficult to meet interested females in my area.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I find the attacks happening when I get out of my solitude and go to a store just to be around and see people, it feels like it's making me more and more distant from my ex, I talk to family but they don't know what to say and are tired of hearing about it. I just want to let her know that I was...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Where are you guys finding dates so easily? Maybe it's a location thing for me, I'm really struggling never been this depressed in my life to where I'm almost having anxiety attacks over the situation and the loneliness. I live alone and have no friends all moved away.
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    Ex is moving out of town

    You need to lose this white knight caring mentality. It will attract another one of these pieces of shets in your life. It's tough to let go when you shared great times I know I was in the same boat, you need to understand that all those good times were nothing but fake, when mine almost had me...
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    Ex is moving out of town

    She clearly didn't put you through the full bpd swing if you care in any way that she's dead or alive. I'm not being a **** but if yours did the crap mine did to me you'd laugh crazily if she was struck by lighting. My bpd carousel hoped to an ex again 2 weeks after sleeping with me and telling...
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