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    First date after bpd ex looking for tips

    At this point that seems true,it's dumb that she couldn't just be straight forward instead of being fakely interested,guess if I get bored I'll shoot her another text, 9 days is quite some time lol.
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    article: They met on a dating site and went bowling. It was a setup, police say, and now he’s dead

    This kinda makes me shudder pertaining something wierd regarding my recent date I went on with a girl from old.
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    F*** BPD ex came back after 4 months

    Stay strong brother,funny mine just messaged me again tonight with a "hope your doing well,never thought we'd get to the point of not even being friends" yea well maybe you should of thought of that before almost having me arrested and jumping on another **** within 4 days. It will most likely...
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    need advice after weird break up plz help

    No problem,I don't mean to insinuate that you would but it wouldn't even be that could be something else,females love drama and making rumors
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    need advice after weird break up plz help

    All you can really do is go nc at this point and read the dj bible, I know it sucks but it will only get worse if anything continues with her,especially the meetings you've had with her seem to be dramatically escalating,you need to be careful you could end up in handcuffs over something small...
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    need advice after weird break up plz help

    I've been there..how old are you? One thing I can guarantee is that what you and this girl ever had is officially over on and off almost always ends in off.
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    First date after bpd ex looking for tips

    My family tells me I should reach out again so atleast I have an answer,but I worry I'll come off desperate,I deffinetly played cool with this one with new lessons learned from the dj bible,I'm interested in the girl but not hearing anything from her in a week kind of feels like a sign to me,I'm...
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    Better locations for women

    The Carolinas or Texas,I hear the southern girls are more respectful and caring for their men compared to these northern girls. Though I can't speak from experience.
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    Borderline Personality Disorder woman

    No,I was referring to the supposed bpd girl who started this thread saying she was born with it lol.they absolutely have a choice and know better pertaining to some of the ****ty things they do. My ex even admitted she could fight the feelings when they come over her but she just chooses not to.
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    Borderline Personality Disorder woman

    If he can dependent on if he's not dead or in jail,it only gets worse each recycle,also pertaining to op bpd is not something your born with lmao.
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    First date after bpd ex looking for tips

    I agree,guess I'm more so looking for outside opinions given recent info if it's clear she's not interested or if I should reach out again due to her being busy.
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    Got a hand job from hot stripper

    When I was about 22 I was at a club/bar with a buddy just hanging out and dancing,saw a girl checking me out on her own accord then we started talking and grinding etc, turned out she was a part time stripper going through a divorce out of state,she was cool as **** and would just hit me up...
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    First date after bpd ex looking for tips

    In the case of her just being busy taking care of her mother and the fact that she hasn't ignored any of my texts should I reach out one last time or could it be she's just letting me down easy?
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    First date after bpd ex looking for tips

    Well it's been almost a week since I asked her for that second date and she hasn't reached out to initiate since we talked last ,guess I should move on.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Oh no doubt,I'm not hating on him,it's just that it comes down to how bad it got really,with a full blown bpd ex like mine I've come out of the fog enough to know without a doubt If I continue with her in any way I will end up dead or in jail. I've been where he is and even though he ****ed her...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Bro come on,I thought we were in this together time wise, I'm not hating but you've given me helpful tough love and I'll give it back,I knew this might happen to you from the sounds of your last update. You gave in to the guilt and denial stage that hits hard around that time period. If your...
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    BDP Ex.. Oh Really?

    The good old bpd threads involved controllerx and jophil their threads were like gold for solid info.
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