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    advice regarding situation, please

    It's perfectly fine. You have to give her the opportunity to say yes or no. Any more assertive than what Gambino has written, I think it'll come across as off.
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    Can you become a don juan just by looks?

    Looks is a good part of it. But always remember it is only a piece of the puzzle. People use looks to determine what kind of quality of person is - but often it's regarded I think in the wrong way. 'Oh I need to look like a actor or be naturally handsome, etc.' - I think is a small factor...
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    Asking how much a woman earns. Pathetic or not?

    I would only generally be concerned with what their job or career is, rather than any numbers at all. Personally, I'm preferring a skill level that is above completing high school, i.e. college or university level (or equivalent) - or has the ambition/moving towards that. Such as I know a girl...
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    Girl seems to give me signs of interest but has a bf

    No worries, I figured that was the reason. Always good to get multiple sources of feedback.
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    Girl seems to give me signs of interest but has a bf

    Making a second thread on this? Obviously you want to hit on her, so hit on her.
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    This girl has a bf what should I do?

    You can talk to her if you wish to, but I wouldn't put much effort or interest into it. Women (and men) I think tend to flirt around a bit more while in a relationship - generally not crossing any lines, but getting that feedback of attraction. Enjoying the sense of flirtation and whatnot (which...
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    23 Year Old Coming on Strong... Continued

    Then just go **** her already.
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    23 Year Old Coming on Strong... Continued

    "I don't know if I can cut communication off with this girl which is the correct move. She's like heroin to me." Literally the sign of the beginning of the end. Either you start thinking with your big head immediately and realize (if I remember correctly) that you have a great wife already. Or...
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    Should I ask out my bosses granddaughter?

    Go for it. But don't be surprised that if things go downhill with this girl, then she's going to be expressing herself to those closest to her. Especially since it's a very tight knit company-family group. Depending on what happened and how she handles a split between you two - could range from...
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    She lied to me. Now I don't think I can ever trust her again.

    Let go of any 'lies' or whatever in the past. Start fresh from this point on.
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    High School First Date Frame

    Next. Spin plates. No contact. Just kidding. But I wouldn't take kindly to her posing 'threats' to me over something that could easily (and better) be handled through discussion and simple asking - not demands and threats to encourage coercion. Never mind that her friend already has a...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    That's the danger of putting so much weight of your life on one person (advertently or inadvertently). If **** hits the fan (and it does with literally every relationship, unless you're together for the rest of your life) - then you're left with not much else. First things first. You will feel...
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    BPD GIRL CUT ME OFF / MET ANOTHER BPD / GENERAL SADNESS

    You're feeling like **** because she drank alcohol with anti-depressants. Nothing bad happened. By your own words. And yet - "I feel so upset today, despite this not being the worst situation. I hate that I've potentially ruined her work week." I can't imagine what will happen when you sneeze...
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    BPD GIRL CUT ME OFF / MET ANOTHER BPD / GENERAL SADNESS

    Congrats man! You didn't follow our advice at all. Now you know how you feel while dealing with her.
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    BPD GIRL CUT ME OFF / MET ANOTHER BPD / GENERAL SADNESS

    Figured you'd keep going for her. Most need to be burned a lot before the survival instincts kick in for good... that ever lasting rationalization that something can work out with her... before it finally clicks for real. Keep safe. If you start feeling erratic, out of control emotionally or...
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    Should I Drop This Hot Plate?

    I wouldn't drop it based on age. I'd just recommend never lying about your age. If it comes up, be confident and upfront about it. "Yeah, I'm 32" People always go with how you feel/act and how you look for your 'age'. The number means really nothing (thankfully). I say my age directly (29) -...
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    What would you do if you were married to this

    Read through it briefly, but seems like it's mostly nitpicking and whining rather than a full crisis per say. There's a lot of acknowledgement from her that her husband does do a lot, but it seems like she's frustrated at needing to micromanage and remind him to replace certain things. She sees...
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    Disrespect from girlfriend

    I'd recommend letting it go myself. It kind of sounds like she was trying to go along with your joke in some manner - then ****ed up and tried to pushed the joke through. Then backed down when she realized it was all going wrong. As far as making comments about a partner's genitalia - it seems...
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