You do nothing. Taking her back means you are enabling her messed up behavior. She has already proven herself to be incapable of proper communication and disloyal to you. It will not last. You can bet your ass the next time when you hit a roadblock in life she's going to leave you again.
The...
Ideally you should not need to have the 'talk' about discussing if you've been exerting your frame from day 1. Bringing up your boundaries in philosophically allows you to navigate sensitive terrority without seeming overdomineering.
A woman should get a sense of what's a dealbreaker for you...
What do you want out of this girl? She seems like too much of a headache to be with other than a sport fvck.
Move on if you have feelings for her.
If you just want to use her as a wet hole, text her this:
"Yeah I don't either." Don't reply anymore unless its asking her to come over for a bang.
I see so many guys here fck up on this part immensely while it's one of the most simple things to do.
Guys, when you text a woman, 99.99999% of them already know that you want to bang them. So act like you have a d!ck and stop pretending you're interested in the weather or her grandma's bowel...
She will only assume its a friends thing only if you have already been acting like a friend from the start. If she asks to bring her cousin along tell her you'd prefer it to be just the two of you.
Either she will flake or agree. Your job as a man is the make the date and wait for her to accept...
You already failed from the 3rd exchange onwards I didn't have to read to know how it was going go down.
Do you tell your buddies about your life? I think not. Even a dude receiving your messages would tell you to stfu because that's how you're coming across to the girl - annoying.
Just talk...
When women pull this kind of passive aggressive sh!t on me I only tell them one thing:
"Is there a problem?" with a straight face. 3 things will happen:
1. She tells you what's up and you talk like adults
2. She meekly says no and understands she was being an idiot, essentially submitting to...
The problem is men will LTR any woman that is hot and then wonder why he got dumped in the first place. Attractivness should only be the measure of whether you want to fvck her but its one of the many measures whether a girl is LTR material. Its pretty common to see my friends LTR a girl after 1...
Another to note is to observe whether you observed any marked differences in how you texted her prior to the date and after you had s3x with her?
If so incongruence is your major issue. Otherwise you can try calling women after you banged them instead of your texting style represents how you...
Too much talking. Seems like you were more invested than her. Work on being concise and getting to the point.
For example:
Current: "Perfect. I'm on off tomorrow. I'll come pick you up after you're done with your appointment and we can go for our second date Miss Pamela."
The way you should...
Go for girls you are attracted to. Plating girls you are unattracted to is not only a waste of your time but also destroys your self-esteem if they reject you.
The last thing a HB10 wants is a dude who can't look past beyond her looks.
I'd say take her to your normal locations, as @deesade says "Beauty is just a sh!t test". Ask personal questions, be interested in getting to know her as a person. Basically treat her like your bratty little sister...
Well you missed an perfect opportunity to play her out... I would've just agreed in text and then 'forget' to sign her in. B!tch needs to be taught a lesson.
Good post. I think we cannot remove it completely but we can most certaintly mitigate it to a great extent. I think a great extent of outcome independence is closely tied to the internalization that you are not responsible for whether someone accepts or declines your offer.
When it comes to...
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