Breaking eye contact first by looking to the side....

[oc16]

I know breaking eye contact first by looking down is a big no no since its a sign of weakness and a sign of submission.

Alot of dating experts say if you do that, you are done, even if you look like Paul Walker.

What about looking to the side?

I was in the gym tonight and checking out some hottie from a small distance. The couple times it happened we made eye contact for a couple seconds and I broke it off by looking to the side, but not down.

I mean, after all; you don't want to seem like you are staring.

 

[stovepipe]

It is a sign of weakness to look away. Show the women you're a man and look into her soul, make her look away. It will make her look at you more like an alpha with confidence. If the stare holds for a while and she looks away and smiles, approach. If you are walking and making eye contact with a women coming towards you, approach if she turns around to take another look.

For some reason men like to stare at me. So lately ive been starring back. Amazing how many men look away and walk with their head to the ground. Sometimes I feel a big rush of confidnce when I win a starring match with an intimating dude. Other times I feel like a fight is about to happen.

I chickened out with a girl whom I complimented at a Coscto. As I left, I saw her at the front of the store, so I decided to look at her as I walked by. We held eye contact as I passed, I turned around and so did she. We starred again, while looking at her she started running her hands through her hair with a smile. And the beta male (me) walked away knowing he coulda got the digits.

Again on July 4th. Was at a friends BBQ when this hot AF chick walks up outta no where. I was chatting with her for a little. Handful of times I turned around to notice her starring at me, but she quickly turned her head when she saw I noticed. Of course I left without trying to get her digits.

These opportunities must be taken advantage of, even if you get rejected. It only makes it easier the more you do it. Don't break contact next time.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Me and one chick were staring at each other for what seemed like forever, then I realized she looked kind of young, broke eye contact immediately and moved on. She could of been anywhere from 17-23, but I'm not going to chance it, nor am I am desperate weirdo.

I trap women now, if I see them walking my way I quickly catch glances of their figures, how they walk, body language. Then I look away, but make sure they don't see me, then as they walk by I bait them. Did it today baited this cute girl and looked at her and she turned her head quickly looked foward as she was walking and gave herself a quick smile and walked on.

I'm starting to master this baiting trick I love it

 

[cola]

Break eye contact with a wave, wink, smile or verbal hello.

 

[jboyd5]

Work with a lot of very cute and hot girls and am always very conscious of this. Some of them will not look away even when the convo ends, and end up in a staring contest. Looking away doesn't make you weak unless there is a reason to.

 

[bigneil]

My last girl used to look down in submission and flutter her eyelashes and it stole my heart every time.

 

[Building_and_Loan]

It is a sign of weakness to look away. Show the women you're a man and look into her soul, make her look away. It will make her look at you more like an alpha with confidence. If the stare holds for a while and she looks away and smiles, approach. If you are walking and making eye contact with a women coming towards you, approach if she turns around to take another look.

For some reason men like to stare at me. So lately ive been starring back. Amazing how many men look away and walk with their head to the ground. Sometimes I feel a big rush of confidnce when I win a starring match with an intimating dude. Other times I feel like a fight is about to happen.

I chickened out with a girl whom I complimented at a Coscto. As I left, I saw her at the front of the store, so I decided to look at her as I walked by. We held eye contact as I passed, I turned around and so did she. We starred again, while looking at her she started running her hands through her hair with a smile. And the beta male (me) walked away knowing he coulda got the digits.

Again on July 4th. Was at a friends BBQ when this hot AF chick walks up outta no where. I was chatting with her for a little. Handful of times I turned around to notice her starring at me, but she quickly turned her head when she saw I noticed. Of course I left without trying to get her digits.

These opportunities must be taken advantage of, even if you get rejected. It only makes it easier the more you do it. Don't break contact next time.

Eh, good stuff but you don't always want to stare at a girl you don't know until she looks away. Some girls could be really creeped out by it, at worst she may think you want to kill her, at best she'll think you're weird.

Proximity is very important here too, as you don't want to be in a staredown with a girl all the way across a large crowded building.

 

[wifehunter]

Context

If there's no context, looking away means nothing.

 

[Konada]

Me and one chick were staring at each other for what seemed like forever, then I realized she looked kind of young, broke eye contact immediately and moved on. She could of been anywhere from 17-23, but I'm not going to chance it, nor am I am desperate weirdo.

I trap women now, if I see them walking my way I quickly catch glances of their figures, how they walk, body language. Then I look away, but make sure they don't see me, then as they walk by I bait them. Did it today baited this cute girl and looked at her and she turned her head quickly looked foward as she was walking and gave herself a quick smile and walked on.

I'm starting to master this baiting trick I love it

I see. You are pro master baiter

 

[Serenity]

It's not critically important, but a bit extended eye contact can serve to indicate your interest for a woman initially. Other than that it's really simple, you can have eye contact and look away sometimes when talking to someone, but always look at them when they're talking to you. This applies to everyone you talk to, not only women. Nobody minds a person looking around some when talking, I'd say this is normal. It's really disturbing however when someone doesn't look at me when I'm talking to them.

Unless you're very avoidant in your gaze I wouldn't worry much about where your eyes go. If your eyes do seem to avoid contact then don't just fix your gaze, work on the underlying cause which is a feeling of inferiority. Fix the feeling and all the minor details in your behavior corrects itself. Trying to control all the small things in your behavior is a struggle and really just makes it worse.

 

[stovepipe]

Eh, good stuff but you don't always want to stare at a girl you don't know until she looks away. Some girls could be really creeped out by it, at worst she may think you want to kill her, at best she'll think you're weird.

Proximity is very important here too, as you don't want to be in a staredown with a girl all the way across a large crowded building.

I never stare like pyscho, you kinda can feel them out with each stare. Although a lot of women I've spoken with who were seduced by narcissists say their long stare is what sucked them in. Go figure