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Thanks for sharing. I get that you are in a tough spot emotionally but all those lost opportunities and mistakes are lessons for a better you in the future - only if you learn from those. I too suffered from low self esteem so I roughly know what you are going through. I suggest finding an...

6 weeks seems like a pretty short time to be considering a relationship with someone, I would advise to do careful screening and go with your gut feel of when it is to consider a relationship. Anyway, well played. I would've done the same as you albeit abit differently - let her know 6 weeks is...

Chiming in after 4 years of leaving this forum. Unicorns do exist and luck does play a part. But you will never be able to spot/hold down a unicorn if you don't do the following: 1. Work on yourself, get rid of your internal **** (including how previous women screwed you over), and unafraid to...

One piece of advice: Focus on being a whole person first. Because if that girl comes and you have not done enough self work to attract her, you won't even meet her or even cross your radar.

Both of you have lost sight of what's the relationship about. What is your intention for the relationship NOW? Is it to deepen the bond between 2 of you? Or to sustain a family unit? And people wonder why relationships fail, because the intention has been warped. See the problem? If it is...

Resolve the issues you have with your break-up. One sign that is really telling that your ego is causing your oneitis is that your feelings dropped once you have her. I'd go against the grain and say approaching women doesn't help. If you need to voice something to her about how the breakup...

I would have ignored it. Or if I'm feeling particularly assholish "LOL. Nice try." If she replies apologizing, put her in her place. " Idiot woman: Sorry CC CC: Good. Let you know when I'm free to meet up. Enjoy the week ahead. ;) Anything less than an apology warrants no reply and an...

1. Girls say that when they 'feel' a connection with you. That's all. Feeling 'connected' =/= boyfriend gives the pvssy tingles. Unless the dude's actually banging her which you have no chance if you sense the guy is a sap its green light on wh0re town 2. No

In the past 7 months I've been dating my gf, she has: 1. Brought me flowers 2. Random stuff 3. Birthday Card, brought me out to dinner 4. Brought goodies from her vacation 5. Brought stuff over when I was sick 6. Drove me around, spent at least $100 bucks on a date with me, 80% of which she paid.

Why do you need to spin plates?

Probably second date will be a good choice. I wouldn't go out of my way for a girl that I barely know, if you don't like her what are you going to do? Pack up your picnic mat and your sandwiches and tell her 'Sorry this isn't working out.' LOL

Good stuff. Where did you get it from?

I misread it as vagina smell. And then I read it again. Poor me.

I can only tell you from my limited experience is that people can't be helped if they don't help themselves. If they come around and ask for guidance and are committed to making a change, I'd do my best to help them. My time and energy is too precious to be spent unplugging some dude who wants...

Are you Gandalf? Time to get off your high horse. Kind of explains why you have such a negative outlook that you have on women when you tolerate the crap listed by OP. (I don't agree with #1 but rest yes).

Every thread he enters eventually turns into a 'woe is Tenacity' thread. I have him on ignore after observing he rather complains about the entire market of women are bytches and in more recent posts citing his wants to blow off the heads of people rather than seeking real solutions. The guy has...

You could be on to why guys who have highest value women submit to them are so. Women look at value as a lover/provider dichotomy. Rarely would you find a guy who can make their ginas' tingle while provisioning for their needs, thus satisfying their dualistic mating strategy. I.E, the truest...

The problem is most men learning game treat it as a means to an end rather than a set of training wheels. There comes a point where being truly authentic allows a man to execute the push/pull dynamic effortlessly without thinking but rather just following his instinct. Interesting that you...

I'd like to add on that prior to gaining confidence, one must dig deep to find out what truly matters to him and rid himself of past inner demons. The one question that really freed me from the shackles of living in my father's shadow was 'Dad, are you proud of me?'. Granted, he said No and it...

to me success looks like this