The issue is not that he drove 70km, but rather the relative level of investment he made vs hers cannot be compared. He had to take an hour's drive while she only had to show up looking sexy at her doorstep.
OP, be glad that you saw this side of her this early.
No matter how you look at it, this is a massive red flag if your goal is to find a LTR. A woman is her most vulnerable right after getting fvcked and the only explanation why she did a 180 is because caring is not in her nature, or she has...
Can't wait for the sosuave version of this where posters tell the dude the HB is being a complete bytch.
"I fvcked her and suddenly her appendix burst. I brought her to the hospital and left her there. Now she goes cold on me and complains I didn't text her to see how she was doing.
Is she...
Sounds like you're burnt out. I suggest you take a break from dating and focus on enjoying the things that make you happy.
Maybe come back with a more neutral attitude. I wouldn't be surprised if the burnt out energy is leaking into your interactions and turning women away.
Honestly the bar is set so low on OLD that you just have to text like a normal person and you will stand out different.
If a dude is on OLD and messages a chick, the chick inherently knows you are there to meet women/bang. You don't have to go through the whole routine of spitting game. Show...
Damn if this wasn't on a men's forum I'd assume your replies came from a female on OLD who makes 0 effort in the conversation.
You need to show some boldness/intention/class. Anything at this point is better than the neutral, pvssy drying replies you got.
Girl: Hi
You: Hey, I think you look...
I thought it was just me. Before RP, I thought getting the girl was the be all end all and almost everyone around me didn't have problems doing so.
Then after some years of being here, I concluded that getting girl was just the start, keeping the relationship stable is where the meat is...
You have to play the field enough to come to the point of knowing the grass isn't going to get any greener. So yes, it will help you to identify the women who are worth it. And this point is different for everyone.
Eventually, I realized that I was much happier alone than dating multiple women...
I grew up with a chronic smoking father and cannot stand the smell of second hand smoke up till this day. If I found out my fiance smokes, I would have ended the relationship a long time ago.
No thanks to making out and tasting an ashtray.
What did you hit her up with?
You can either ping her now or Tuesday, it makes absolutely no f*cking difference. The fact that you are more concerned about how she views your text to confirm a date, rather than respecting the time you have set aside (which could have been used for something...
That's not leading my friend. Nothing wrong with checking in and confirming the date.
Only thing not right is you letting this woman occupy your headspace rent free when you should have shoot a text to confirm whether the date is on.
If its not, walk away, maybe reach out in a week or two and...
Maybe in the western world, I don't see any of this happen in Asia, not to my knowledge.
What examples have you seen?
What is the relative SMV of male vs female?
Does this involve previously divorced or never married couples?
I just think its a can of worms that is better left unopened...
You make valid points. However, you're fighting against years of social conditioning ever since the girl was wearing diapers and you'll be fighting an uphill battle, even if the woman is wife material.
In fact, I would argue it creates a stable family unit because most women view marriage =...
If you fear being divorce raped then you picked the wrong woman to begin with.
If she doesn't add value to your life or pulls her weight in the relationship, she is not wife material.
A wife is supposed to build you up and allow you to succeed more than if you have done it alone.
I would suggest to leave the conversation as it is. But keep in mind you will have to screen this woman even more.
What she is telling you is that she will not respect your boundaries if they do not fall into the realm of what she thinks is "right", no discussion.
I would be more vigilant if...
You're shoving your ideas of how a boyfriend should act like down her throat without considering if she appreciates it.
She cannot fully appreciate and receive your affection if you do it in a way that is self-serving. And your statement that you are only going to ask once seems spiteful rather...
If the only thing of value you offer is your wallet, obviously she won't stay.
Something doesn't add up, your relative probably doesn't run the household other than just paying the bills.
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