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Being married doesn't suddenly turn your relationship into a fairytale. One has no business getting married if the relationship does not make him happy. Happiness is a pre-requisite to marriage, not the outcome.

Different take here. OP is autistic, understanding the nuances of human interactions is basically something he will never in his lifetime internalize because his brain isn't wired that way. If go direct works for you, then continue doing it. Results speak, no need to listen to posters telling...

Getting married soon in a couple of months time, what married men resources are there that you guys have found valuable?

Great to hear that you are working on yourself. You will need to have a honest conversation with her and put your foot down that how she's acting isn't working for you. Offer your support for her to get working on herself. (No this doesn't mean hiring a personal trainer for her, tell her to get...

"We were best friends, and of course I put her on a pedestal and became a doormat, causing her to lose respect for me and stop desiring me like she did initially." Be the man that attracted her in the first place. Think back what was she attracted to you about and act accordingly. If you're...

She has low interest and zero respect for you. High interest women do not talk down to you. What to do? Delete her number and approach other girls.

Have you guys went out on a date? If no, you need to pull the trigger and take her out. Texting for 2 weeks puts you in the penpal zone.

I would say dedicate some time to learning these stuff or at least involve yourself in some activities where you have to interact with females e.g. salsa dancing, ballroom etc. Like the other poster said, you can't really put it on pause because the yearning will always be there like it or not...

Typical feminine behavior is to receive. The male penetrates and the female receives. A relationship can only function properly if the male leads and the female follows, at least that is what I've found in my experience. The problem is western influence has masculinized females too much they...

After you fvck a woman she is most of the time in a vulnerable state. It doesn't hurt to send her a text that you enjoyed your time last night to build some comfort and not make her feel used. Then, set up the next bang when you feel like it. This is advice that @guru1000 gave me.

Can't take what you say seriously if you are really using a nutcase as a valid example of hypergamy.

Now you're projecting the woman flaked out with a flimsy excuse. She said she wasn't feeling too well, it could or could not be a valid excuse. We will never know. But the dude's reaction is borderline serial killer vibes, not sure how you can justify that kind of reaction from being rejected.

Only thing that will break here is your **** :rofl:

If she is interested, its charming. If she is not interested or on the fence, it most likely will be looked at as kissing ass. If she is as hot as you say, she has probably heard every line in the book from all the dudes that want to bang her. Including some variation of your line. Get her...

Me: And ps how was someone stupid enough to get divorced from you? You have the vibe of a smiley, bubbly and fun person! You barely know this chick. For all you know, her husband could have been sick of her craziness and divorced her. Why would you send something like this??

That's besides the point... I'm emphasizing that you don't deal with such chicks at all, much less trying to keep them around. But hey, you're 25. Hormones are raging, you just want to get your d!ck wet no matter the cost to your sanity. I understand.

This horse has been beaten many times to death. STEER CLEAR OF WOMEN WITH MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES. Whatever happened to you is not surprising, there is no "special one" BPD female that you can save.

I don't know what maturity you are talking about here, I don't even know if you are doing this for yourself or her lol. Note how many times have you mentioned breaking up "maturely" for her in your previous post. This should be about you and you alone. If you really had any self-respect, you...

Except you don't tell a beginner salesman to do whatever the hell he wants because he is still thirsty to close a sale. Rules/scripts are like training wheels to get started, a dude with little to no success will 99% of the time kill his own chances by overtexting instead of exercising...

Imagine a dude steps into the MMA ring and gets beaten to a pulp and spit on... He then begs the other fighter "look man, I don't wanna fight you, can we talk this out like REAL MEN??" That's how absurd your mindset is right now.