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I noticed that there has been some curiosity in the forum about running a successful LTR and thought that it was about time that I shared with the forum my learnings as it did when I was just a young kid trying to spit game and bang chicks. I'm getting married soon to a wonderful partner and...

She is looking for a provider to nurse her kids, unfortunately as a broke college kid you don't fit that bill.

It won't do much. People can just fly over to legsl states to get an abortion. We should see more black market services as well, resulting in casualties. (But if you are dumb enough to get black market services, you are better off dead anyway) Not to mention wealthy people, its still easy to...

No point hypothesizing what she is thinking. Bottomline is that she is not in the right place/time for you to be a priority. If you do wish to keep this door open for the future, I'd say something like "I understand, you sound like you have alot of things on your plate, it happens." No...

There is another guy in the picture who is higher on the totem pole than you. Probably what happened is that this dude went hot and cold on her, which explains her behavior.

I've been rated 6-7/10 by members on this forum and never banged women from 18-25 when I was supposedly working on myself, so I can see how all that working on yourself doesn't mean you will get laid. In fact, only when I started to actively practice game and asking women out, going on dates...

I agree with inviting her over to a place where you can escalate to sex. You do not know where you stand in terms of attraction and sex with her yet. Too early to next her, because you have not led properly. For all you know, she may be a virgin. My advice, if you are looking just to smash...

For context, my fiancee did not flake once in the first few months of dating. If she could not make it for a suggested date, she would tell me the reason and offer an alternative date for scheduling. Sometimes, she would also rearrange her plans with other friends to accomodate my schedule...

I disagree with trying to screen everything on a first date. People put up a front and you won't find this out on the first date. You should be screening during the initial phase of dating and ALSO during the LTR itself. It takes 1-2 years before people fall into complacency and true colors...

Sounds like you two have different love languages. However, her conflict management skills are dogsh!t. Depending on how much you want the relationship, you can either try to talk it out with her or say "You're right, I don't see a future with you either" and show her the door. I personally...

When you get older, you have lessrr energy than in your youth. You realize the finite energy you have can only be spent on things that you truly give a **** about, things that have a lasting impact on you. People opinions are not one of them

She only wants guys with maxed 99 in all skills, have fun beating that.

161 on this test, can't be the case. I scored 130-140 on others though

Yeah you are not her dad, but like you said, her lifestyle preferences don't align with that group of people, she didn't even want to go out anyway (her choice). So why tell her to go out if she didn't even want to?

Damn she handed you the option for her to stay away from her friends on a silver platter and you told her to go? Something doesn't add up here.

Let her know explicitly that smoking and drugs are a dealbreaker with you and let her decide. If she respects you enough she will know not to hang herself with the rope you have given her.

Don't sh!t where you eat. Unless you don't value your job.

You're right. All these posters are just spitting what gets them the most e-p3nis points here. I would have done your text game abit differently: You: Can I ask you something straightforward? Her: What? You: Not you Her: Huh? You: Sorry who is this? Karen? At this point, you got her hamster...

The irony here is that the men lambasting women who don't put out by x number of dates are also the very same men complaining they can't find a woman with low body count. Can you really expect a woman to have a low body count given the options they have and if they put out by the 3rd date...

Agreed. My philosophy is to pick your battles. Nothing wrong with letting her have her way if I'm already maintaining frame in the relationship the whole time. To me, you're fighting against years and years of social indoctrination of getting down on one knee. Its an uneccessary potential...