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Seems like he's given in, in some respect. I think he's seen two main options - Pain/Option 1 - being with her, under illusion of actual trust and respect, while he loses some self-respect but not all. He knows on some level that the mutual respect is gone due to the cheating, with no way to...

As a guy who's balding and gone from lax shaving (every ~2 weeks) to every 3-4 days - it definitely pays to keep it shaved clean. Along with hitting the gym - I've been getting plenty more attention and positive feedback. Even from guys (more friendly). Also, I see some guys with the half...

I know a guy (29 now) who's been in a relationship with a 50 year old for like 5 years now. Live together. But I would say their relationship is not ideal, at least from what I saw. Lots of little arguments and I think insecurities and such. I think it's not particularly good to have that large...

I know a guy who is about 29 now. Been in a relationship with an older woman (I think now 50~) for I think... 5 years now? Even living together for quite some time. Sometimes they get along great, but it always seemed to me to be surrounded by misgivings, or arguments, or something. I think...

I've been here before. It's a bad spot to put yourself in. You'll be too focused on whether or not things are going well between you - and suddenly things aren't going well. Honestly - try not to care at all about it. Suppress those emotions and overamp'd desires right up until she's actually...

I think it's mainly because it doesn't seem like he has eyebrows. There's some other stuff there... but where the hell are the eyebrows. In regards to the actual thread, I think this is where the origin of 'be yourself' comes from. The typical idea is that means 'Oh I can relax and not care...

Tell her to sleep on the street then. Don't give them anything at all. Say "Thanks for the screw babe!" and kick them out. Relationship goes as far as you're willing.

Finances are just another indicator if you have your **** together. It adds indicators towards higher intelligence, charisma, ambition, status, forward momentum in life. Not guaranteed at all, as other things come into play. But the main thing is showing that you're not a deadbeat. They don't...

Why don't you tell us if you're still attached or not? We're not judging. This forum is for getting to the truth and heart of the matters at hand, not playing "I'm cool, I'm strong and over her". We don't care if you are or not - but I'd advise to be open, for the best benefit for yourself.

First question - "So, how many guys have you ****ed?" Joke. Just try and figure what their interests are in, boring or not. What they're studying, or what they do on the side. Frankly, finding out that kind of basic info has saved me time... one girl I was 'ehh... let's see what she's about'...

Lol just chill. It may suck ass, but it's fine. It's great you're doing the mistakes now, you're getting outside your comfort zone. Your future self will relish in the experience and lessons you're getting now. Even if **** totally hits the fan, feel a bit of pride in yourself.

Might be contrary to some advice, but seems like it's too direct imo. I'd break it up into two parts at least. Ask if she wants to grab a coffee (or you can add today, or tomorrow) - then establish a time and day that is good for both of you. Suggest the day/time, but remain flexible - "How does...

For myself, morality and moral actions is (simply put) things that promote the health and well-being of society. And of course, there are many interpretives towards what contributes to that as well. I generally strive to be good, because it makes me feel good, if I'm honest. I want to...

You've probably got the right feeling here. Especially I think, since she's accused you of cheating. Pretty classic projection (cheaters usually accuse their partners of cheating). Avoiding communication and meetings, avoiding sex... ever so potentially has an explanation... maybe. But seems...

It means don't get emotionally attached. Enjoy whatever is happening, but don't think 'She's the one'.

I agree with your reaction with what happened in your situation. With kinds of generosity - it's suppose to be allowed to be given, rather than demanded or expected. It's even ruder when someone highlights it as an accusatory expectation. Kind of them saying "What is wrong with you??" It speaks...

Never a good thing when your interest talks about their ex. Not only does it clearly show that they're thinking of their ex - but overtly bringing them up to you speaks volumes. I myself would not be happy with the comment she made. "I know what its like to be loved, my ex would introduce me to...

If it wasn't obvious it was a troll - from a recent post of his: "This is the first time I’ve ever been in this position but I’m in a dilemma of choosing between two beautiful women. These two women, Elena and Isabela, who I’m fortunate enough to meet and get to know are as different as night...

This is why you at least minimum unfollow them (if not just straight unfriend them). There is zero positive information that can come from looking at their social media. Either it's them having fun (negative), doing normal stuff, living their life (negative to you). Could be moping around and...

If things end in an amicable, understanding way, then I would say yes, keep them as a friend, unfollow if you must. But things usually end fairly poorly, and if you're at the point of debating unfriending - it's probably not a friendly ending. Give yourself a few days, to mull it over if you...