Facebook: Do you.... unfollow/unfriend

[oc16]

What have you guys done in the past when you still had feelings for an ex-girlfriend, girl you casually dated, crush you've barely spoken to before, etc and.....

You were friends with her on Facebook.

Did you unfollow her, unfriend Her?

 

[oc16]

Depends on if they wronged me.

Would you consider being used as a rebound being "wronged "?

 

[sazc]

I feel as if unfriending them is openly admitting to them that they hurt me a lot. And there's no way in hell I want them to know that. So I just unfollow them.

 

[wifehunter]

People clean up their friends list periodically. If there's little interaction, why not?

 

[Masculinity]

What have you guys done in the past when you still had feelings for an ex-girlfriend, girl you casually dated, crush you've barely spoken to before, etc and.....

You were friends with her on Facebook.

Did you unfollow her, unfriend Her?

See the "No Contact Challenge" thread at the top of the Don Juan Discussion page.


http://www.sosuave.net/forum/thread...enge-read-this-if-you-just-got-dumped.160056/

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

What have you guys done in the past when you still had feelings for an ex-girlfriend, girl you casually dated, crush you've barely spoken to before, etc and.....

You were friends with her on Facebook.

Did you unfollow her, unfriend Her?

You should unfollow and unfriend [this action is anonymous I believe].

If you continue to follow, then that would be voyeurism would it not?

 

[BeTheChange]

Unfriend in the spring clean. That whole "don't unfriend them or they'll know they hurt me" is nonsense.

Delete the number, unfriend and move on.

 

[TheGambino]

I unfriended my old oneitis and the guys around them that ''took her away'', they were friends, ofcourse they going to think that I was hurt. But guess what? I dont give a f8ck, I dont want people on my friendlist that disrespected me. F*CK THEM

 

[RedScorpion]

If things end in an amicable, understanding way, then I would say yes, keep them as a friend, unfollow if you must. But things usually end fairly poorly, and if you're at the point of debating unfriending - it's probably not a friendly ending.

Give yourself a few days, to mull it over if you wish. But if they're being disrespectful and otherwise a ***** to you - **** it. If you're done with them - be done with them. I've had a couple girls try to mind**** with me purposefully. One texted me asking why my married best friend didn't reply to a text she sent a couple hours ago - all concerned over him for whatever reason. I replied normally, answered her question, whatever. I told my friend, he thought it was weird. Few days later, texting him in the morning (after I hung out with him at his house, seen her going out with his wife for her bday drinks, being snotty to me that night), saying he should make her breakfast and all this other ****. This was on top of a hundred other bs things over the year then.

Waited a week or so, blocked her on fb, phone. Didn't stop her from being more directly flirty, cleaning my collar of something, dancing close over the next half year. Culminated in her asking me out for coffee sometime (she seemed to be waiting for me to ask that). Said no thanks, and I believe she overheard me saying to someone I'd prefer to tell her to f off. She still flitted around my work area unnecessarily.

Morale of the story. If you're done with them, be done with them.

 

[jaymbrs]

There's a feature called "Take a Break" that was designed specifically for this.

 

[devilkingx2]

unfriend if you're never going to need to have them added ever again. don't unfriend if you're gonna need them in the future