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I believe I've only met two or three potential BPD (or weird) women, but for me they stand clearly outside of the normal mind frame of a girl. Or a normal person. One thing that stands as a clear trait for me (doesn't matter if they're actually BPD or just weird), is the rapid flip of very into...

I think they resonate well with each other, such as improving one can assist the other, and so can be considered equal in many respects. Kind of like how your mental health can directly impact your physical and vice versa. If I had to pick one, I'd pick inner game as more key. Mostly because...

Not necessarily. Pure looks don't rate as high for women, as it does for men. Looks are still important, but more towards deportment, posture, movement. Clothing, physique and style as you mentioned as well. Hard to say without more info about what's going on, but I myself wouldn't date someone...

Hah, I wonder. She already had a boyfriend - but it was enough for her to noticeably get pouty, then a minute later get up/storm off from everyone, after I had mentioned hanging out with these two other girls and a guy for the day. And then silent treatment. She also lived at home at 20, which I...

Yep. Met a girl who was very much a 'Princess' type, major social media *****, wasn't raised with a father - she was keen on punishment by silent treatment, storming off, etc. if you didn't act the way she wanted you to. Massive headache.

I agree with what sazc and Glassguy have said. Unless she was a complete ***** to you before, there's no harm in being civil. Keep it fairly short, polite. Don't get too into it. Let her have her mending.

I somewhat disagree with the approach here, rather to twist it a bit. I'd say come at it from a non fuzzed kind of way - understanding but not overly concerned either way. "No problem. I know what it's like" - and then let her re-initiate from there. I wouldn't wait a day or two - just send a...

I went back and read some of your previous threads. Obviously this same topic has been on your mind for over half a year now. And it's apparently bugging you for all this time. Something nagging at you, saying 'Something is wrong here'. Over and over it's pinged at you. And so you look to see if...

Need more info on what happened, really.

I don't think AW per say, but in my opinion, she might be a bit off. Seems kind of weird behaviour... enough to put at least an awareness of it. If your gut is telling you something, then I'd follow it.

You're a rock star now :p

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Yep, that sounds fine, to have not any contact until the date. I might confirm that she's still good to go on the day of (friday), since it is a few days away. But otherwise, sounds like it's going well. If she does text you about something, that's fine too.

Alright... you had a wife, and a girlfriend on the side. And you're concerned about how your girlfriend was cheating on you, while you were cheating on your wife. You're also more worried about and missing your girlfriend, rather than the wife. Not exactly sympathetic to the plight here. Best...

Personally, I would take the focus off women for awhile, and onto yourself. Seeking Arrangement isn't a place where I'd expect necessarily 'nice' girls either. Realize they're probably jaded as ****, since they are deliberately putting their bodies or relationships out there for money. This mean...

She's acting this way because you're not sucking up to her to make her feel better. Because of this show of strength, she's doubting whether or not she's made the right decision. Enough to call you and throw an emotional hissy fit in order to see how you react. You are doing the right thing -...

I think the best option is to make it seem like a cool, detached, unemotional answer. A "Yeah, that's just how life goes" kind of answer (an I don't give a **** way). I would have a token amount of truth in there, so you believe what you're saying as well. Partly annoying because it seems to...