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I'd say it's uncommon. Especially if it's just you and her. The ones where I've seen this happen - it was pretty much a surefire lead into the girl cheating on their bf (or vice versa). One girl I can think of was pretty much doing it for the attention - going from guy to guy, flirting...

Not to drag this thread up from the depths - I just want to say thanks to everyone who contributed to the thread, and giving their answers. Definitely a lot of good thoughts, and good reasoning behind it. I don't have it quite yet innate in myself that it's a strong move, but I'm sure it'll...

I'd avoid 'using' on either front myself. Each person may contribute to the other in some form - but I'd keep it to the basics and build from there. Such as - enjoying their presence. Finding them physically attractive. Appreciating their pursuits in life. Then you can go in whichever focus you...

True. I know that with people I respect, I would expect them to act accordingly if I did something disrespectful to them. Of course, I try to avoid doing so. I know if they didn't react accordingly, or acted in an overzealous manner to an resolvable minor thing - I would lose respect for them...

I want to see Richard become a cyborg by 2020.

I hear this adage quite often at times - that most men will put up with anything from women, especially if they're beautiful women. Basically women will treat them with bad behaviour, disrespect, tantrums, and other dis-qualifiers, but they will keep going until they finally crash and burn. And...

Way too much texting and 'caring' shown to a girl you barely know. She's a girl you met once, and you're coming on like she's your girlfriend already. Even if she was hypothetically - probably I'd say that's where your fault lies. Step back a bit, pace yourself some and it'll go smoother.

Well you're in it now. Might as well go with it. I wouldn't seek to bring it up as a subject, but might be alright overall. Just don't make a big deal of it. Something you find interesting, treating it as a novelty with her. Rather than stating it as your way of life, etc. Maybe you two can...

Reading your second post, I think even more so she had her own share of issues. With your own issues at hand, I think it's partly a matter of your issues not aligning. You were never going to 'fulfill' her issues because she either needs to work through them (unlikely but possible and the best...

Sounds fine. It maximized the chance of anything real happening. She was probably like you said looking for attention/validation by all chances. And if not, she'll come back with something. No response is the best here I think.

As ****ty as it is, I always prefer to follow a girls actions, rather than what they say. I've been fooled many a time where they profess something towards you, or them pushing heavily towards getting together and such. And so you accept... and it's all kind of bs. Even when I think 'wow, I've...

Kind of curious on a specific thing. If a girl is being disrespectful (silent treatment), I try reaching out to see what's up, and it still seems like an apparent 'move' on her part... is being silent and distant, + eventually silently removing them from social media (after some time) fit this...

This is why I don't try and mess around with girls with bfs. The only way it can 'work out' is if you can give absolutely zero ****s about her and don't care at all about where it goes. Trying to make it into something more is just a trap - as if she can do this to her current boyfriend, you...

Isn't it obvious then? It's a corvette. Case closed.

There's little lies where you say 'everything will be alright', and things to avoid telling the full truth here and there. Comforting lies. This one expands to his entire background, person, what he's actively pursuing as a career. 'Sorry, I'm not 22, I'm 32. Also I'm not going to school or...

My friend met his ex-wife at a club and lied about his name to her initially (at the club)... but I think this is somewhat more severe. You're probably screwed for any real relationship. 'Surprise, I'm this whole other person!'. Age doesn't matter that much (as a 30 year old going to...

Yeah I agree with both you two. I read the OP thinking it was kind of a dumb question. Such as who cares if you go to this crappy social event? Not really a question that needs answering imo. I noticed the pic was weird too, but I didn't quite catch on it was a fake post. But with that...

Okay. This sounds like a weak excuse. Workplaces aren't stupid. They're going to deal with students having jobs there and also needing to prioritize attending classes. You find a place that's hiring. You mention immediately that you are a student and will need time to attend classes and such...

If a girls applies the silent treatment, I recommend cutting her off for good. Too much bull**** and struggle over getting someone to be friendly. You tried to make amends. She's still being a *****. **** that.

I don't think money is going to be purely effective at that. This is going to be just a piece of it, but I think having your own interests and hobbies that you actively pursue is a good start. Something that you can be passionate about, and show that in conversation. Like for myself, I've gotten...