GFs who can't stop seeking male attention

[marmel75]

Everyone including myself told you not to put up with disrespect and now you're finding out how big the bill can be. If the child is yours there's plenty of guys here who know how to be a good father to a child who has a sh1tty mother. But if you're going to gain anything by hanging out here you need to be smarter.

This is what always amazes me a guy might think that he s smarter than one guy maybe two guys but if 20 people telling the same thing on his post does he really think he s smarter than all of them

Its because they've already decided what they are going to do and simply want people to agree with them or they will rationalize it away and then do what they intended to all along

 

[randalljohnson]

Its because they've already decided what they are going to do and simply want people to agree with them or they will rationalize it away and then do what they intended to all along

Everyone including myself told you not to put up with disrespect and now you're finding out how big the bill can be. If the child is yours there's plenty of guys here who know how to be a good father to a child who has a sh1tty mother. But if you're going to gain anything by hanging out here you need to be smarter.

This is what always amazes me a guy might think that he s smarter than one guy maybe two guys but if 20 people telling the same thing on his post does he really think he s smarter than all of them

I'm just saying, she hasn' showed me signs she wants other men, other than her parading some pics and Liking them. I mean, I wouldn't do that to any of my exes so I'm not sure why she feels the need to. If it's attention seeking behavior or if she genuinely wants somebody else.

 

[cityboy989]

I'm just saying, she hasn' showed me signs she wants other men, other than her parading some pics and Liking them. I mean, I wouldn't do that to any of my exes so I'm not sure why she feels the need to. If it's attention seeking behavior or if she genuinely wants somebody else.

Dude you moved her into your apartment and you're providing for her, her kid, yourself, and your kid. With another on the way. It sounds like she's mooching off you. She should be kissing your feet, instead she Likes pictures of exes and other men online.

 

[ubercat]

First priority is to find out if the kid is yours. Second priority is to work out how you feel about the rest of the relationship. If the rest is all peaches and cream given that you've got a kid in common maybe it's worth fighting the uphill battle. You obviously didn't study the DJ Bible the first time around. If you're looking to justify your own opinions well you're doomed good luck.

Pragmatically speaking she's knocked up so she's hardly going to be running off and cheating right now. So your issue is to be the best option and regain the frame.

Given the kids in the mix this is going to be tricky and delicate work. I thoroughly suggest skimming a couple of books and then studying whatever bits you think will immediately help you in detail. There s a great ebook practical female psychology for the practical man. And a lot of the married guys here recommend Athol May s books

 

[Sgthaytham]

She craves attention, so don't give it.

>results???

 

[randalljohnson]

It is as bad as everyone on this forum told you it would be and you went ahead with it anyways.

So you think she's doing more than liking pictures? Or liking pictures will lead to more?

 

[lizardking82]

So you think she's doing more than liking pictures? Or liking pictures will lead to more?

At this point, it does not matter at all, my man. I will tell you what I have told some other guys before on other threads in similar situations: your gut feeling is telling you something is not right and highly probably, something is not right and even if not right now, it will not be later. You have made a wrong choice, in my judgement, at least with the facts you have present me with. I think you are still in time to revert those choices. Better late than never.

 

[Masculinity]

Hey all. It's been a few months. So I'm popping my head in and giving you all an update. My girlfriend of a year moved in with me and my kid a couple of months ago (her kid is living with us too.) She's 6 months pregnant with our kid. We have our own little family. Most of you are aware of her tumultuous past.

A couple months ago, she finally put me in her profile pic. I viewed this as important,knowing that she's a daily Facebook user and likes to blurt her excitement out on Facebook. Well that only lasted a few weeks, because she then changed her profile pic to a pic of her and her kid. She's made 0 acknowledgement of me on her Facebook in over a month, which is kind of shady behavior from her. All her posts are either about her kid or herself.

Another tidbit-- I have an Instagram that, to her knowledge, I never use. I happened to be on the other night and noticed in my activity feed that she Liked a few of her ex's pics (an ex from a few years ago.) So I go to the guys page and peek through his pics, and noticed she's been Liking a good amount of his pics over the past couple months. I also found out that she Follows him, but he doesn't Follow her.

Do you all view this as shady behavior, NPD, HPD, BPD, or is this paranoia? I feel like she cant leave me considering I put a roof over her head, am providng for her and her kid, and we have a kid on the way. I just find it disrespectful...and shady.

This situation won't end well.

 

[RedScorpion]

I went back and read some of your previous threads. Obviously this same topic has been on your mind for over half a year now. And it's apparently bugging you for all this time. Something nagging at you, saying 'Something is wrong here'. Over and over it's pinged at you. And so you look to see if that is an accurate feeling. Trying to write it off as just paranoia or some other thing.

The advice here is 'Yes, something is not right with this'. It's kind of ****ty because of the situation. You yourself already know something is off. Something inside you has brought this up as a concern many many times over the year. And guess what... you're not wrong.

Best advice for yourself - you may as well keep going as normal, since you need to see the results through, and KNOW for certainty what the future is. So you know you didn't ruin anything. But have your plan for how to react and handle the withdrawal part in the back of your head, so you know you handled it the best you can.

Maybe it'll peter out to nothing - that's what to hope for. But... chances are, it'll be the sign of a fundamental issue underneath with her.

 

[Glassguy]

Hey everyone....Captain Save A Hoe is back!

Welcome back buddy. Glad you didnt listen to any advice we gave you the first time around. Thank you for the self humiliating new stories you bring to the forum. It is much appreciated since several of the other trolls arent around anymore.

Go ahead and reject all of the great advise that others give you about your wh0re gf, diasppear, then come back in 6 more months after she has popped out your kid, still living under your roof and eating your food, and most importantly, still liking this other dude's pics and wishing she was sucking his c0ck again.

Sounds like a plan. Ready......break!

 

[Desdinova]

I happened to be on the other night and noticed in my activity feed that she Liked a few of her ex's pics (an ex from a few years ago.) So I go to the guys page and peek through his pics, and noticed she's been Liking a good amount of his pics over the past couple months.

And that's why you rewarded her with pregnancy and co-habitation, right? Because this kind of behavior is an asset to a relationship, right? You're looking forward to her doing this in the coming years of your relationship, right?

If you didn't agree with any of the above, then you shouldn't have been rewarding this woman with anything.

 

[dude99]

Everyone including myself told you not to put up with disrespect and now you're finding out how big the bill can be. If the child is yours there's plenty of guys here who know how to be a good father to a child who has a sh1tty mother. But if you're going to gain anything by hanging out here you need to be smarter.

This is what always amazes me a guy might think that he s smarter than one guy maybe two guys but if 20 people telling the same thing on his post does he really think he s smarter than all of them

20 guys can tell him he is making a mistake and he won,t care because he is waiting and will continue to wait for that one dude to say "it's all gonna be ok man,"

 

[Glassguy]

20 guys can tell him he is making a mistake and he won,t care because he is waiting and will continue to wait for that one dude to say "it's all gonna be ok man,"

It's all gonna be ok man.

Just buy her roses, chocolates and a teddy bear. Reward her great behavior so she will continue to repeat it!

(Enter Sarcasm)

 

[Billtx49]

20 guys can tell him he is making a mistake and he won,t care because he is waiting and will continue to wait for that one dude to say "it's all gonna be ok man,"

Yep, you can’t help a man that’s not receptive to real life experience and knowledge and isn’t actually looking for rational answers and help…

 

[randalljohnson]

Hey everyone....Captain Save A Hoe is back!

Welcome back buddy. Glad you didnt listen to any advice we gave you the first time around. Thank you for the self humiliating new stories you bring to the forum. It is much appreciated since several of the other trolls arent around anymore.

Go ahead and reject all of the great advise that others give you about your wh0re gf, diasppear, then come back in 6 more months after she has popped out your kid, still living under your roof and eating your food, and most importantly, still liking this other dude's pics and wishing she was sucking his c0ck again.

Sounds like a plan. Ready......break!

If she never actually does it (suck another guys peen) she can't be wanting to do it that had

 

[randalljohnson]

Yep, you can’t help a man that’s not receptive to real life experience and knowledge and isn’t actually looking for rational answers and help…

So the outcome is she's going to cheat or leave me? That's the outcome?

 

[exhausted]

Hey all. It's been a few months. So I'm popping my head in and giving you all an update. My girlfriend of a year moved in with me and my kid a couple of months ago (her kid is living with us too.) She's 6 months pregnant with our kid. We have our own little family. Most of you are aware of her tumultuous past.

A couple months ago, she finally put me in her profile pic. I viewed this as important,knowing that she's a daily Facebook user and likes to blurt her excitement out on Facebook. Well that only lasted a few weeks, because she then changed her profile pic to a pic of her and her kid. She's made 0 acknowledgement of me on her Facebook in over a month, which is kind of shady behavior from her. All her posts are either about her kid or herself.

Another tidbit-- I have an Instagram that, to her knowledge, I never use. I happened to be on the other night and noticed in my activity feed that she Liked a few of her ex's pics (an ex from a few years ago.) So I go to the guys page and peek through his pics, and noticed she's been Liking a good amount of his pics over the past couple months. I also found out that she Follows him, but he doesn't Follow her.

Do you all view this as shady behavior, NPD, HPD, BPD, or is this paranoia? I feel like she cant leave me considering I put a roof over her head, am providng for her and her kid, and we have a kid on the way. I just find it disrespectful...and shady.

Tell her to grow up and get her chit together she isnt in junior high anymore to be liking exs pics like a lowlife. It's embarrassing for you both.
She's a mom and about to be a new mom to another kid, it's time for her to step up and be a woman not a little girl on facebook.

You need to show some resolve and be the man of the house. F that bs.

 

[sazc]

So the outcome is she's going to cheat or leave me? That's the outcome?

Eventually she will leave you. I predict when the kids is about 3, maybe 4. She won't feel a deep connection to you, and how could she when you are not being honest with her about how you really feel in the relationship.

DO NOT marry her until you feel SOLID about the relationship.... But you will anyways....

 

[randalljohnson]

Eventually she will leave you. I predict when the kids is about 3, maybe 4. She won't feel a deep connection to you, and how could she when you are not being honest with her about how you really feel in the relationship.

DO NOT marry her until you feel SOLID about the relationship.... But you will anyways....

That's alright she wouldn't marry me anyway because she's not truly in love with me. Right?

 

[cityboy989]

Eventually she will leave you. I predict when the kids is about 3, maybe 4. She won't feel a deep connection to you, and how could she when you are not being honest with her about how you really feel in the relationship.

DO NOT marry her until you feel SOLID about the relationship.... But you will anyways....

The girl sounds toxic. I'm assuming she's hot and out of this guys league, but she rebounded with him and was looking to settle with a nice guy beta provider (for now, atleast.) See it all the time. Beta providers shacking up with hot women that wouldn't look twice at them, under normal circumstances.

So she's not even 30 and now has 2 kids by 2 men, moved into his place, and is essentially mooching off him. Im assuming she has no college education, so she'll continue working minimum wage jobs the rest of her life (while collecting child support from 2 men,) or she'll bite the bullet and stay with him forever, becoming a stay-at-home mom. She has a trashy profile, I must say.