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    Girl wanted to go out with me but now is confusing me

    I like the game. One girl said to me once - "for you that is a social experiment not the start of a relationship " and I replied "it all depends on you"
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    Girl wanted to go out with me but now is confusing me

    She needed her drama fix :) I like the game. One girl said to me once - "for you that is a social experiment not the start of a relationship " and I replied "it all depends on you"
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    Ugh, im lost, need some opinions moving forward, thanks

    Because you are supposed to flee low IL :)
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    LTR feels like it's in jeopardy

    A long time ago a girl left some items at my place ( she was sleeping there ) , saying she will come back in a day, phoned me to say she will be late, then no contact - ( she was ok - she posted after that new images on her net account ). I tried to call her back the first and second day - phone...
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    We broke up... 11 months into our relationship

    There were many stories. I will tell them when a similar situation comes across, if and when a person asks for advice - in the meantime, like the good book says "there is nothing new under the sun".
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    Ugh, im lost, need some opinions moving forward, thanks

    You have been friendzoned already - let me put that in perspective for you : "making out, sexual/physical touching the works", "she had a great time ", "she wouldnt resist but wouldnt snuggle back either", "she again kisses me goodnight" - from hot to cold. The only thing you can salvage now...
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    Ugh, im lost, need some opinions moving forward, thanks

    That's simple - pull back and wait/no contact - if she's interested she will come to you. For now she has buyer's regret for the drunk episode.
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    We broke up... 11 months into our relationship

    So basically you were low value in her eyes, and by "accepting" her you further decreased it. No surprise here. Fom my experience when a woman loves you any inhibition is cast away - even the virgin religious type can be persuaded into all kind of unconventional fantasies. Bottom line - you...
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    Facebook question: to add or not to add

    Don't concentrate on her - it looks like low interest to me. From my own experience, an interested female will be more than eager to get in touch.
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    Tales of a flake (and me trying to get the upper hand)

    A textbook example of low interest. It all goes down from here.
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    Random girl on the street - Help Needed!!

    Rejection is always better than regret. Be positive - most relationships start between "random" people bumping into each other in real life or on the net.
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    Blown-out Again; How do you keep rejection from phasing you?

    Obviously if you don't try you cannot succeed. You will realize later that you are irrelevant to some girls and the whole world to others, and yet you remain the same person. The key here is self-confidence and self-reliance - these are essential in starting and especially maintaining a...
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    Is she playing hard to get? or is she not interested?

    Don't be passive - that will only get you friendzoned. Fight the scarcity mentality by contacting more girls at the same time - if one of them is interested she will make herself available. Above all watch the interest level - if the relationship is not evolving with each passing encounter then...
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    Paying for a flight

    Paying for this flight is like playing the roulette - you may win some intimacy or you may get only a kiss on the cheek, but your self-esteem will be damaged in any case.
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    Tricky Relationship Advice Needed

    They are not cryptic at all. In this particular case - from the limited information that you share, we have a woman looking for a drama fix ( among others ), juggling you and her ex to suit her needs, and giving enough candy in the form of intimacy to keep you both interested ( that's why the ex...
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