Exactly.
The argument used to be that older women outnumber older men, so it would supposedly get easier for older men.
I agree that it doesn’t work that way. It doesn’t take into account younger men also going for older women. It also doesn’t take into account those older women that...
Lol. Yeah, it’s still in use by some Gen X, as well as boomers and silents.
I actively try to strike outdated terms/phrases from my vocabulary. I never want to be the old “groovy” guy lol.
@SW15 Notice that bachelor guy is still a big three. Tall, great hair for his age, and retired business owner.
Not surprisingly, all three were required even for older women.
Agree. None of my guy or female friends know this stuff. They don’t know how a woman’s cycle works either. One is a mom of two who thinks she’s more fertile during her period. These are all mature adults.
I think of lot of guys still really want to be themselves. For example, if the guy is an introvert, he might have little desire to be the life of the party guy.
People tie their personality to their identity. If you tell a guy he needs to improve his look, most guys can accept that. But...
He might just be inexperienced. He’s oblivious to those showing interest in him.
He also thinks he’s being respectful by not imposing himself. A lot of nice guys do this. It really comes from a good place, but it isn’t effective.
Years ago, I was having drinks with two 21 yo chicks. There was a tall guy in the center of a group of people at the same bar. His back was towards us. One of the chicks with me said, “He’s so hot.” Couldn’t see his face or much of his physique from where we were sitting. (And his...
The sad part is nice guys like this usually have good intentions. He didn’t want to pressure her or make her uncomfortable. But the chick doesn’t ever see it that way.
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