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I’ve never worn glasses at all until recently when I needed them for reading. I think I look better with them. Got complimented by a female coworker after she saw me on a zooom meeting with the glasses on. If you have the right frames, they can definitely be a net positive. But the...

Casino nightclubs can be pretty good. Casino bars and lounges are hit and miss. They might have some “professionals” mixed in. As for the gambling floor itself, most people stay in their groups, and it is bad form to interrupt someone who is playing. Food court is probably ok for day game...

As a Gen Xer, most women in my age group have traditionally feminine names. If anything, I think guys’ names have changed more. What used to be last names back in the day are now common first names for a lot of younger guys. The names are still masculine in nature, but the types of names...

The time of night matters too. Some clubs can (temporarily) have a surplus of women early on, but it almost always changes to a sausage fest later in the night. TLDR: The video clip was cherry picked. I’d be curious how it looked a few hours later.

Dressing well generally doesn’t hurt you. And fashion can be fun. If you chose to fashion-max, I would argue that the shirt is #1 because it’s the most visible. (Or tie if you’re wearing one with a plain shirt.) But it’s definitely not a “hack” or “cheat code.” If a guy who isn’t...

It’s also not easy for a lot of guys to smile without seeking approval. Plenty of guys fake a smile to try to get the chick to smile and/or to like them more. It’s creepy at worst and “nice guy” and try hard at best. Even a business-like/serious expression is preferable to a fake, approval...

Honestly, he could have just asked, and it probably would have been fine. Make out, fool around and once things get really heated, just ask her “Did you want to….?”

Introverts typically prefer one on one interactions. If you must socialize, try to pick one person to talk to for a while. Your “battery” will last a bit longer that way. Talking to multiple people will drain your battery fast.

Good question and your point is well taken. It definitely crossed my mind but I didn’t want to go under the knife for something cosmetic. Plus there’s the pain, the cost, use of minoxidil on the remaining sections, and potential for needing future surgeries, etc. Agree completely.

%bf is about 24. Working on weight loss and fitness. Short term target is <20%. Then can fine tune those numbers from there. Hair dresser thinks I have decent head shape. Other than being very light skinned, there’s no real downside. Thanks guys. (I’ll stop there.)

Understood. I think I would get used to it and lose the self-conscious feeling fairly soon.

I look mid tier normie (MTN) in the front and sides with remaining but dyed hair. But the large bald spot on top/back just wrecks it. Have to finally shave this off starting in 2024. Nothing to lose at this point.

Mostly due to the hair loss. I figured that, if anybody is going to cut me some slack on that, she’s likely going to be well north of 40. I could be wrong, but that’s been the thought. So I haven’t really tried 30s at all in a few years.

I try to be brutally realistic. I don’t talk to 30s women at all in real life unless it’s business related.

Any mature woman will absolutely relationship-experience-mog me. I don’t really think about that very much anymore to be honest. It is what it is.

Affairs are extremely addictive. Plenty of them started out as a ONS or brief fling and ended up continuing on for months or even years. Obviously that greatly increases the chances of hubby finding out. TLDR: She did you a huge favor by cutting it off before it continued.

It’s less than even friendzone. It’s “I can tolerate him as sort of an acquaintance sometimes” zone. You didn’t miss an opportunity here. She’s just not interested. It’s ok. Just move on.

Ok. I was somehow picturing you as a low 30s guy. My bad.

You had regular/vanilla sex and was happy to just get laid. Nothing wrong with that. She wanted to be railed into next week. It was a mismatch of expectations.

When I say Height, Hair and Money, I’m generally referring to mature guys. Younger guys don’t typically have to worry about hair loss. And I agree that looks are typically more important than money for a younger guy.