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Fair. No guarantee she'll ask for that though. Might have to be my job. Would still feel like a stalker even then. I just wish she did the right thing and had deleted him already, in general, regardless of if me or any other new guy was in the picture. I delete all my ex's from social media.

Easier said than done. When does something give? Theoretically speaking with any chick if you're let's say 2 in and things are starting to turn serious and you see her ex boyfriend who she TOLD you just tried getting her back a few months earlier liking her hot pics on social media left and...

Pretty sure your passive aggressive/snobby comments aren't what these forums were created for. And what happens if things work out with this chick? Can I come back and call your bluff?

Because an ex follows her and likes her posts on social media? It's a bit of a red flag that she hasn't deleted him, sure, but to think it's a complete "no win" situation I have a hard time believing.

Huh?

Am I the only one who sees this as a completely a$$ backwards statement? Well can you elaborate on that? So you think it's just flat out over and a lost cause because she still allows this guy to follow her on IG? She told me flat out she rejected his rekindle attempt.

Well it should be noted that the pic she has is a TAGGED pic so its not a pic on her actual Instagram. That being said, so you say she purposely has him in the picture. Yes I know that, but the reason is why? 1- to get attention and the rush when he likes her photos or 2- Bc he may still legit...

Call me paranoid or call me smart, but after having a bad experience with a plate's ex coming back into the picture and her kicking me to the curb for him, I feel it's my duty as a person and as a man to protect myself the best I can. I've been dating this girl for a few weeks and it's been...

FIrst of all don't worry about my peace of mind so much. I'm fine. Though I get where you're coming from. I disposed of this piece of work and now i'm onto the next, attempting to spin more plates. With regards to your comments about her being surprised by me finally putting my foot down and...

Thanks.

Met a girl off Match in early March (pre covid). We went on one date which went seemingly very well, but afterwards the games began. Though she agreed to go out again, the texting was now stagnant, delayed, and sometimes just plain weird. Whether it was low interest or her just playing some...

I don't praise him, but I do believe some of his material is extremely helpful. Why do you view him as a con?

Oh please.

I get the point, but for me the reality is that I'm more than likely going to be free Friday anyway, and it's nice to kind of leave it open seeing if she eventually comes back to me about trying to go out Fri after all, while at the same time knowing that I also kind told her no, in a way. Is it...

She responded saying "I think that sounds great- Thanks again!"

I sent her your suggestion, close to word for word. I get all your saying, believe me. That's not the kind of response a man is looking for when he asks a woman out. My time is valuable, and i'm not about to put myself on hold for this girl and her bs reasons about not knowing this or that, etc...

Says the guy who just said a few posts ago how this all isn't really a bad thing, lol (?)

I hear ya. Her throwing in the "Friday is likely good" line though is kinda getting to me though. I feel as if its a test more than anything else, but i'll just never know. One thing is for sure the entire story is bs. That I'm aware. Thanks.

So under no circumstances do you think I should write ok sounds good, let me know when you figure out your schedule ?

Basically what I'm thinking too