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I dread the days I may have to help plan a wedding, even if small. Figuring out every last detail and paying an arm and a leg to be the center of attention for an event that half the people you invite probably couldn't care less. Then for all you know you or your wife will wake up with the flu...

Lord knows I've been there before. Fortunately never went the distance with any of them. That being said none of them were ever as distant as this chick is with me. With this chick ironcally she admitted to me that she's "very stubborn" and "can be bossy sometimes"

You know it's just sad bc at this stage of my life, the prejudging game when it comes to dating is something I'm trying to avoid, yet somehow it does always come back to bite me in the a$$. 40 yrs old, hot, smart, successful, etc. I'd be lying if I didn't think that's interesting that she's...

@Hank Moody Well my implication there was of course I don't want to waste my time in the event that she really isn't looking for anything long term or plans to just have a summer fling with me. Ultimately I would like to progress. But of course, as you read in my post I'm sure, she has basically...

You're implying that I completely f-cked up with my game with this woman which I don't see being the case outside of initiating with her again with my random text when she's shown me hardly any initiation from her end. Also, maybe I shouldn't have made such a convo out of her moving initially...

Instead of being cryptic would you mind just sharing what you mean? I don't think I've been failing many tests at all to be completely honest.

So I guess I shouldn't ask her where she thinks a guy (i.e. me) could fit into a relationship if she ends up (in her words "likely") moving in the Fall like she said she is? :lol:

You are very right. In my case it was extra difficult though imo when I got a chick that wants me staying over her place, is talking about future plans with me, tells me in a text that she wishes I was there to "keep her warm", and then I push forward a little bit and show her more of my "cards"...

Well I'll go out on a limb saying the line isn't implying to treat a girl like sh-t or play the game so hard that you're only talking to her once every 2 weeks 2 months into dating. But instead going about it in such a way that you're still casting even the slightest bit of doubt in her head at...

just to respond to this... I won't disagree with your above statement completely, as yes, after a few weeks and few dates of dating I'll admit I was starting to like this woman, but I will also say that in a normal world in normal progression and where I come from I've learned that this is also...

Agreed on both counts. Thanks for the advice.

Met her online well over a month ago now. Very different/reserved type of chick. Got weird about removing her mask for a kiss at the end of what was a very nice 3rd date and said "Next time!". Not big into sex talk. Only made out at the end of the 4TH DATE (I know). 5th date I slept over her...

I get what you're saying and you're right but it has nothing to do with the main topic of this thread

Look I get that she's just a plate but you need to understand I've been hurt/f-d over in the past and I'm simply being cautious. The chick told me flat out that the ex reached out and tried getting back with her this past summer. I think any normal guy would be a bit concerned if he came across...

Didn't really get into details. She only told me that she's closer with her Mother rather than her Father but that's about it.

Really an interesting thread and as someone who is no longer in his 20's I too have experienced what its like to no longer get rock hard at the drop of a hat. One thing I've realized though as time has gone on and as I've gotten older is just how important foreplay is. Just jumping into sex...

Even if they're obvious this is a very good list and I like how they're all laid out and explained well. I'd be curious what your two cents are in my latest thread.

I don't know how much it means or how much it "helps" her case, but she's not out of control on it to the point of daily posts or endless stories each day. She posts a photo i'd say on average of once every 2 weeks. But that being said it still doesn't change the fact that her IG is still loaded...

I agree, it's not a good look, and she should be old enough (30) to know that in this day and age of social media that I know exactly who he is. Especially since a tagged pic of her still exists with him.

If you're not being passive aggressive you're definitely acting like a know it all who is also basically saying that I don't know jack sh-t about women. Your implication is that simply bc this chick's ex follows her on social media and likes her photos is an absolute good enough reason to abort...