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Nope. She actually texted right back talking about some other BS random topic believe it or not which I responded to before deciding to go NC once and for all. Girl was desperate to keep me as her orbiter. She then texted me 3 days later with another small talk attempt asking a random question...

I mean yeah, you're right, I just didn't want to get into it too much. Although I do feel there is SOME truth to what she said in the sense that she'd feel "Too much pressure" as well, but of course, ultimately, at the end of the day she simply didn't like me enough. I too experienced something...

First of all man my heart goes out to you. 21 years and to still be in love with the chick must be insanely tough. Would you mind giving me some details about why you separated though? Who dumped who? I am assuming since you're heartbroken she was at least the main initiator. This all being...

Well said, but in my particular cases they are just tough pills to swallow bc we were compatible and had a blast but things just ended for other reasons. The first case bc she was still seemingly playing the field and didn't seem to want anything too serious, and the second case bc of an ex who...

Very good post. I enjoyed it. Fortunately I already have a lot of success in my life so it just sucks terribly when at 33 years old I had girls (two in the last year as discussed in this thread) that I was actually into and for one reason or another they didn't work out and I have to go back to...

Yup. I gave her one chance and she showed her true colors. I will never entertain any contact from her ever again short of her throwing herself at me within the next few days with an answer that includes yes. Also, I never liked a single thing of hers on FB. That was her liking something of...

I do not have any real hope. I was just trying to have some conversation about the topic at hand with regards to ex plates/ex gf's, how they come back, why they come back, etc. I've been enjoying this thread and if anyone else would like to share their experience of an ex returning, by all...

This is what I was mostly referring to as well as far as them "coming back", however I still do believe there is always a small chance for two people to one day work things out in the future, as long as the reasons for the initial breakup weren't drastic. If two people were arguing day in and...

Just curious what caused the breakup?

I know I was just a temporary. It hurt. At the same time real feelings were developed by her as she told me several times including after she came back. I believe it to be true. We had such a nice 2 months but the reality is she was in no way over her ex. When I told her how wrong it was to go...

You better believe it. Lesson learned in the couple of weeks after the blowoff for me. Actions ALWAYS speak louder than words. But emotions were running high. We had an intense two months. I truly believed she may have just made a horrible mistake and was going to come back in a short period of...

Well in an update I still have yet to hear from her again after our conversation this past Saturday afternoon. I feel like this is just validating my thoughts that her reaching out was more random than anything else and that she may have just been looking for some attention. Verdict is still...

In that particular case he never even responded. It was a very rough sudden breakup for bs reasons initially by her. 2 weeks after she dumped him he saw a photo of her on FB with another guy and he was forever done with her in his mind. But my overall point is its absolutely not true that 99% of...

Well fortunately my theory has always been that the women who sh--t test the hell out of you and make you "play the game" to a significant degree are the ones who are probably no good in the long run anyway. A truly GOOD girl who is genuine and has a good head on her shoulders isn't going to do...

Not sure how this makes any sense. If anything, for starters I don't have Oneitis. I got over this girl in a matter of weeks and eventually almost completely forgot about her earlier this year. While I would entertain seeing her again, this thread was started probably more for general discussion...

Well this is pretty much the point of this entire thread. It would be perfectly fine if SHE suggests getting together first and then you ask her to come over, but Corey Wayne says to basically flat out ask her to hang out and if she rejects you, then you say ok no problem take care. Basically...

If that's how you operate then that's perfectly fine. But it's easier said than done with a lot of people. Emotion is a powerful thing. I mean she didn't cheat on me a year into a relationship. If she wants to come back cordially and also throw in an apology I'd entertain hanging out with her...

The reasoning for this is actually more simple than we think, at least in my opinion. It all depends on how rough the break up was. If it was a very rough ending after let’s say a year long relationship and the guy was devastated, he’s not gonna get get over it in 2 weeks. It’s probably going to...