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I personally feel that immediately asking if a woman is single is putting the cart before the horse. You are a complete stranger to a woman in a cold approach and I feel you have to be very mindful of this. When you ask if they are single, it almost conveys that you are saying, "I want to fvck...

Sums up my feelings exactly. I just find it funny how shocked some people are when I tell them, "You know, if you see a cute girl, you can...... go up to her and talk to her." They are often like, "Wait, really? You can DO that??" The world has truly gone mad - third wave feminism has really...

I can understand how someone could get into that mindset, however, think about it like this: Are girls generally asking men out on dates? Do you just stand around and wait, actionless, for something to happen to you, like you are a passenger in life? Girls can express their interest in you in...

I have used this exact sentence, and many variations of it hundreds of times. I use it when the girl and I aren't sharing any mutual experience that I can talk to her about and especially if I have to actually stop a girl who is walking. In those situations, being direct is best. Somewhere...

You are wasting your time on this INCEL. I can't decide whether he is an INCEL, a professional internet troll, or both. A key identifier of a troll is someone who presents criticisms and points for debate but deliberately makes clear errors in logic and reasoning. They do this to draw you in. A...

Refreshing to see posts like this where someone is putting in the work to succeed, facing their fears, working through discomfort, and being brutally honest about both their failures and their successes.

Yes one framework I learned when I first started approaching is: General, Specific, Personal, Relatable. Your goal is to avoid asking many questions in rapid succession on a wide variety of topics and instead narrow in on one or two things that really get to the core of who she is. In other...

Something I have learned about people in my older years: Approximately 20% of the general population suffers from a specific mental defect. I don't know if there is a name for it but it is a combination of confirmation bias, narcissism, and denial. Narcissist believe they are better and smarter...

That's like telling a rocket scientist the best way to build a rocket when you are a janitor. It has everything to do with the subject at hand because you aren't speaking about something you have any experience with or knowledge of. In this case, cold approaching or having meaningful...

And that is the difference between you and I. One of us is speaking from vast amounts of direct personal experience and success dating beautiful women half our age - years of experience and hundreds if not thousands of approaches/interactions, while the other is theorizing something won't work...

How would you know? Have you actually tried it? How often? Or are you just theorizing what would happen?

Are you asking because you want to learn how to have meaningful conversations with strangers and you don't know how? Or are you more making a statement that you do not believe it is possible to have a meaningful conversation with a stranger?

I do this all the time. Target is one of the best stores to find hot women. It's like a factory of 21-30yo women wearing yoga tights. Grocery store is decent too but not as good as Target. Whole Foods is pretty good as well, but it's funny because I find the hottest women there, yet there are...

Most, but not all women have male friends. All have male acquaintances and orbiters. In my experience, the women I have dated seriously were willing to drop their male friends in order to be in a relationship with me (and if they were not, I would not agree to a relationship with them). I bring...

A few more thoughts on this. Without getting into too much detail, when I was married and blue-pilled, I learned that if you don't set boundaries around this, women will allow themselves to get into risky situations, sometimes innocently. Sometimes they do this knowing full-well what they are...

In terms of male friends, my rules for women are: 1. No hanging out with men 1:1 (meaning, just her and the guy) 2. No regular communication with male friends, via text, phone, DMs #2 is difficult to enforce and monitor. You'll never TRULY know how many guys a woman is texting/DMing with. All...

It wouldn't have lasted longer if you had better looks. She liked your looks enough to bang you. You passed the looks test already. You lost her for the other reasons you already mentioned. Girls want a guy who likes them, but could take it or leave it, and who doesn't stand for any of their...

I cured myself of this by deliberately forcing myself to go to malls and approach women who were near groups of bored onlookers. Example, a woman in a small cosmetics store with 3 hot girls behind the counter with no customers to serve and nothing to do other than watch me come in and cold...

We have all been there OP. I remember it took me several years to fully get over the first girl I dated after my divorce and she and I only dated 2 months. It's laughable (and cringe) to me now, but sometimes I still get a little ping of adrenaline when I see her name pop up. On that note, when...

An old post back from the dead but great lessons here. WOW. ALL women and ALL men have the capacity to cheat and will do so in the right situation and with the right person. The chances of them doing so go based on who she is as a person, but also based on how you are handling yourself...