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I've slept with too many hot women 20+ years younger than me to stop doing it. It works and is a great way to meet high volumes of quality women who aren't on dating apps. There is honestly no other way of matching the volume/quality combination of cold approach. We aren't talking about a dark...

Never follow a girl at night like that. Super creepy. It's ok to approach at night but never follow. The time to do it is immediately, before you cross paths. As she approaches you, hold out your hand to get her attention before she passes, then stop and say your bit. When doing cold approaches...

1. Way too many dates too fast from you. You should set one date per week, no more, until she pushes for more. You were asking this girl to hang out literally every day. That is way too much. 2. Best not to make your dates something platonic. Walking dogs is platonic. Lunch is platonic. Outdoor...

If this were true, why are you obsessing so much about this one girl you've met once or twice in-person, at work? Self-rationalization and confirmation-bias. What you want to hear is that there is a button you can push that will get you what you want. Unfortunately that isn't how dating...

This is really immature. I know you are upset at yourself for failing to properly respond in the moment but don't be a baby and start trying to fvck with this guy just to assert your dominance and get revenge. Just move on with your life and if he is disrespectful again, deal with it then. It is...

1. I do not advise double-texting women. 2. You've been asked to share exactly what it was that she last said to you and what you said in response, but you are deliberately avoiding sharing that. Why? 3. She probably stopped responding because you didn't ask her out. The point of your...

You beat me to it. and there were red flags like inviting himself to my place to make out the 4th and 5th date (to be fair he didn't try for sex but it's just weird and rude) There is nothing weird or rude about it and if you read between the lines, she accepted his saying he was coming over...

Keep your emotions in check. Do not get angry or heated. Understand that arguing or fighting will NEVER end in a positive conclusion. The only way an argument can have a positive outcome is if one person is fully convinced by the other person that they were wrong the other person is right, and...

I think you are looking at this the wrong way. It sounds like this has been your experience with women. What you are describing is a woman who is not relationship material. Relationships should be easy. They should be yin and yang. Your masculinity should complement and counterbalance her...

You don't need choosing signals. You can completely ignore them. When I walk down the street or the grocery store isle, *I* make the choosing decision based on what *I* want. I don't need a choosing signal from a woman. Many women don't even see me, or if they do they are so busy in their head...

Still overthinking. Girls are social creates and masters at playing games. She could have told her friend to say that in order to test you. She could have lied to her friend in hopes that it got back to you in order to see how you would respond. She could think you are physically attractive but...

You are suffering from analysis paralysis. It is like you are waiting for this girl to write you a hand-written note that says, "I like you, ask me out and I will have sex with you," and you want that level of certainty in order to avoid the risk of being rejected by her. You can't operate...

Lean this lesson from yourself. This is exactly what I meant when I said to just focus on enjoying time together without having this goal/vision of a relationship in mind. You can't control that. All you can do is hook up with girls, spend time with the ones you like, and see if something more...

I agree with BackInTheGame that this might have been what happened, but to address your comments about red flags and ruling her out: At this stage in dating your goal should be to just hang out with women you enjoy and have great sex with them, and do that with more than one woman at a time if...

Sounds like you are thinking about things in the right way now Tony. The only thing I would say is that oneitis doesn't mean staying with one person - it means overvaluing one person beyond their actual value, putting them on a pedestal, and thinking there will never be another girl as good...

Then why say? No one is sh*tting on you personally here. The name of the game on this forum is tough, honest, brotherly love. Your close guy friends in real life should be real with you and flip you sh*t for doing dumb things. We have all done dumb things. If you are a tough guy you should be...

These things ^^^^ are not aligning with this: You are focused way too much on a long-term relationship with someone you have been dating under two weeks. At this point, you should be dating her and at least one or two other women, getting to know her, having fun, etc. You won't even start to...

Many men mistake genuine female interest/attraction for the tendency women have to not want a guy they dumped to be happy, successful, and move-on, and their reaching out to him just to check and see if that's the case. Women constantly question themselves because their decisions are...

This.

You've already lost if you are asking questions like this. What you are asking is, "What can I do to be the person she most wants". That is the wrong frame and the wrong mindset. You have already put her on a pedestal as the prize to be won and no woman wants that. She wants a guy who SHE puts...