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You need to work to fix your panic attacks. That is something you should own. You should NEVER lean on a woman to assist you with your uncontrolled emotions (this extends beyond panic attacks, to any emotions), much less a woman who is your ex. That is needy, weak and pitiful and does nothing...

At this point in my life, with the experiences I have had, I am not sure I can attach anymore, so that hasn't been a problem for me lately. Part of it is that I can see all a girl's red flags and then based on past experience, see exactly how the relationship would play out into the future, so...

If you truly love and lust for women and everything that is sexy about a really beautiful woman's body, I can't understand why a man would not want to go down or her or be grossed out about doing it. You swap fluids with a woman when you kiss her. This really isn't any different. But hey, to...

The easiest way to detach is to see women and relationships for what they are as opposed to what you were brainwashed to believe. You must also learn to avoid mistaking neediness for love.

I have come to this realization as well. It kind of sucks to be honest, because I enjoy giving pleasure just as much as I enjoy receiving it, but women are wired differently than us and the less I focus on them and the more I focus on myself, the more they seem to like it.

@mikedee I have that one! Great book.... I haven't finished it though. I should pick it back up. @Robert28 yeah I've seen the movie to try to see why women like it. That is definitely getting into the **** side of things.

I practice dominance in the bedroom but feel like I've only scratched the surface and the dominance that I practice is starting to seem vanilla. Part of that is because there are only a certain number of things in my usual bag of tricks and I haven't expanded it in some time, but the bigger part...

It truly is all mental. In my 20's when I was blue pilled and had almost zero luck with women, I never could have imagined I would have the same success I do now at 45 (and with women in their 20's and 30's even at my current age).

That is a great point that I think a lot of people aren't really aware of (and one I didn't really consider, related to masks, until you mentioned it). I've seen a ton of statements from women in OLD along the lines of, "If you don't have at least one pic of you smiling, I'm going to assume you...

Pre-covid I would agree. Post covid, I have had women literally stare at me wide-eyed, to the point where they don't even realize I'm looking right back at them. Then when they suddenly realize it, they look away bashfully. Had that happen recently at a grocery store and then she changed course...

I would advise you against this. Plenty of other fish in the sea who don't live two doors down.

I'm slender and muscular - probably about 8-10% body fat. I've been off OLD for 5 years but due to the pandemic, I reluctantly loaded up an OLD app a few weeks ago to see how it would go. 98% of the women are overweight - actually that's not fair. 98% are what I consider overweight, but about...

This was true until recently. A lot of women relocated to a new city during the pandemic and haven't been able to meet people so they go to OLD.

This is a good point and one I forgot to make previously. It is well-known around here that women are ruthless toward one another in order to secure the man they want and if they can't have him, by god no other women will. My guy friends and I have been c0ck-blocked routinely by women in our...

Out of my entire social circle, there has been maybe ONE girl I have ever been interested in. Unless you are in many different social circles that all involve massive amounts of people, with new people coming and going constantly, the odds are low that you or a woman is going to find someone...

It is a tough question to answer because we only see outcomes through our own eyes and perhaps there are subtle (or not so subtle depending on where we are in our evolution) cues that women pick up on that cause them to test more or less based on that but....... ...... yes this has been my...

It absolutely does and it has been well-documented too. If a man can't stand up for himself, what is to make her think he will stand up to another man, for himself or for her. Testing men is a part of a woman's feminine energy - she does it not so much as a "test," but as a covert way of...

Yes and no. You have control over some things but not all things. The things you don't have control over are her other options at the time she met you, and if you are her "type" or not - both physically, how you dress, and how you act. If you are in good shape, dress well, and you either are a...

This is something that one can only do once they truly get out of the scarcity mindset, and either have true abundance, or have honestly adopted the mindset that they are better off single or in a dry spell than getting regular sex from a woman who is trying to control them. A common female...

Not to be a d*ck but what did you expect from a girl who is cheating on her BF with you? I would simply expect it. But yes I do understand how it's a turn-off. It would be for me as well. Agree with Bible-Belt. Be sure to use protection and watch out for the herp. As for should you keep...