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I am pretty direct with my cold approaches, however, "hey, I think you're really cute. Can I have your number?" is not direct, it's simply uncalibrated and that is why women are turning you down. In HS you may have had better luck due to social proof and relying on your looks alone. You have no...

Dodging the question is your best course of action. Many humorous example replies have already been provided. But one point I need to make is that you should never be concerned that a woman will be "mad" at you or lose interest in you because you won't tell her what she wants to know. While she...

Completely agree with all this and have experienced the exact same issue from a girl I recently dated (except she did not cheat on me that I am aware of but you never know with these women). Bottom line, the stronger-willed the girl is, the more likely it is that she will constantly fight to...

OP's statements are completely untrue and can be translated into the standard lazy AFC cop out of: "Things that require effort and discomfort will not improve me so I'm justified in whining instead of taking action to improve myself." I am living proof that it works. It took me 1+ year to get...

She was likely being honest with you about her reasons for substance abuse. The really sad part though, is that even if what she said was true, the only person who can address it is her. She's not going to seek therapy for you. She's not going to stop drinking for you.

Hey GG, sorry to hear about this. Most of us try to rationalize that we could have had control over the situation had we done something differently. It's easier to think like this because it means we believe we can probably ensure it never happens again. While that mindset may be true and may...

I've discovered many people aren't able to discern the difference between a narcissist and an alpha. That applies to both men and women. Women crave alpha men and end up dating narcissists who they mistake as alpha (probably because narcissists are more common than true alphas). An alpha male is...

While I wouldn't call them "broken" exactly (though I get the point of using that label), I will say that women who are late-bloomers have the potential to be good catches. They didn't grow up with the kind of treatment from people that strongly contributes to their becoming insane. If they can...

I can't look back at any woman I dated and feel like I should have stayed with her or wish she didn't dump me. Of the few that dumped me, I did wish they hadn't in that moment and for a while after, but I have since learned that they did me a favor, especially after seeing where they are today...

Not really. In the last three or four years, every single girl (except one) I dated or slept with, I had met via cold approach. Once the pandemic hit and masks were in effect, cold approach simply stopped working. It's not just the mask - the whole "stranger danger" "keep your distance"...

Never. Never even watch their stories because they can see you do it. And never F with a co-worker. So my following advice is general - not specific to your co-worker situation which you should not get into. My social media does a good job of communicating my status so I'm fine with...

I typically go for around 30 but will sleep with a girl of any legal age that I consider attractive. Usually girls under about 26 are too boring/annoying to date so I will just sleep with them, but there are exceptions. I did date a 24yo for 18 months because she was wise beyond her years - an...

Good observations. Do you think that you may be relying on female validation (through all those many forms of affirmations/affections you just outlined) to feel that you are a high value man? Over time, you realize a couple things: 1. The things women do that "make their love feel real" to...

Some great advice given so far. We have all been in this situation. I would say though, that you should also spend time trying to figure out exactly why you had such strong feelings for this girl and why she has effected you so much. The reason is that the universe is trying to send you a...

Another know-it-all newcomer shows up asking questions, then criticizes not only the answers he receives, but takes it a step further and actually attacks the character and experience of the people trying to help him (and with quite a lengthy and detailed list of accusations). You see, you...

Textbook attention wh0re. Don't text her again. Your first text to her is all she was looking for - the validation that she could have you if she wanted you, but she doesn't and that's why you aren't hearing from her. If she was interested she would reply. Never double text. No. She wasn't...

This should be added to the DJ Bible. I can't tell you how long it took me to learn this. Women who want to constantly complain should be kicked to the curb. Remember, you are screening them, not the other way around. I do exactly what RangerMike does in that I put a positive spin on things or...

This has been my experience too, with just a small number of exceptions. I've experienced every issue under the sun as to why the women didn't get along with my social circle. Usually it's due to insecurity. My immediate reaction to this would be to ask you WHY your life is a barren friendless...

You beat me to it Dash. Was just going to say the same thing. Either a troll or a hopelessly narcissistic simp who is unable to be helped due to their narcissism. In either case, the pattern is the same, ask a question, then ignore the advice and ask the same dumb questions over and over and...

Try it and let us know how it works out for you. Or read the DJ Bible and articles here and learn why it won't work.