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Ayyy glad it helped bro. In retrospect, the realizations I wrote here were a MAJOR turning point for me and I still link noobs to it sometimes. A lot of what I wrote here back in the day probably doesn't hold up--or align with the way I look at things now--but this still does 100%. When it...

Nah lol. Ppl acting like y’all were dating or whatever. Or that you did an actual approach vs just lowkey catcalling (from the sound of it) lol. Or that girls don’t change moment to moment—I’ve fvcked girls I ran into later who for whatever reason weren’t about it when I met them originally...

Totally arbitrary. It will fvck up your sleep cycle a little, but that's about it. Just not accurate lol. But out of curiosity...what's your proposed alternative?

^^^lol can't imagine you're not a hit at the college bars. You're literally making all these claims about a game you're not even participating in and about participants you're not even interacting with. As someone who participates in the game I'm telling it like it is. Take it for what it...

One night, one venue isn't an accurate sample size. I've been hitting (almost exclusively) college bars for the past 7 yrs. At some venues I'm literally over a decade older than EVERYONE in the venue. Can almost promise you that either 1.) this was all in your head or 2.) you felt...

Might be a cultural thing or a subcomm thing, but I can probably count on both hands the # of times I've been c0ckblocked by dudes over the last 7 years (and most of the girls I approach have dudes on them--kinda my thing). If you have a strong hook other guys are mostly irrelevant. Only...

So much this lol. I don’t bother with preselection or social proof at all these days. 0 difference as far as opening + hooking. But jealousy plot lines within the group backfire way more often than they work. Also if you’re in a city with other PUAs some dude is gonna snipe the hottie while...

Preciate it--feel like I've said my piece but glad that people are still benefitting from it. Life's good--hope all's well on your end as well.

From a game perspective, you should always reapproach--it works a decent % of the time. From a self-esteem perspective, it's natural to be like, "Oh, you don't recognize this value, good luck." I used to do tons of reapproaches, I think every new guy should--but these days I have to really want...

Status is determined by behavior--at least as far as how girls evaluate you sexually/emotionally. Obviously, if you're not appealing to that side of women, possessions become increasingly important. Or if you're dating older women. But as far as meet > sex, when exactly are girls actually seeing...

You right. Your first post was circumspect & spot on. I was spray-and-praying--didn't mean to hit you with collateral damage. Stand by the rest of my argument.

Or you can just assume more risk or build the right relationships and make more money more quickly than you could on any "career" trajectory or "paying your dues"--sometimes beyond what you're "qualified" for by your resume or past achievements (outside of being an NFL player or some sh1t). If...

Don't know, don't use it. Really hot girls aren't on there anyway unless it's to plug their IG or OF (every guy I know who uses OLD IRL bangs 5s, 6s, some 7s, and maybe an 8 when he gets really, really super lucky and usually ends up with a fvcked up self-image as well as skewed perception of...

Gonna keep this stupid vague, cause I don't wanna be doxxed or have some girl randomly find this and recognize herself. Most obvious example was super early in my game journey--I'd slept with some hot girls but only ones that showed obvious interest and helped lead interactions towards sex...

I've never gotten that particular one, except when girls ask me to buy them drinks and I tell them no, which is really just a sh1t test as well. In those cases, I usually like, "Girl, you suck at this. There's literally hundreds of thirsty fvckers who are just hoping for the chance to buy you a...

I would. It's like waiting for the perfect job to recruit you instead of applying to the ones you want. I roll with naturals all the time--guys that get laid plenty but who rely on waiting for choosing signals. I'm fvcking hotter girls. This is true almost across the board--almost everyone in...

Idk, because you want to fvck the most attractive woman in the bar--who's probably at a table surrounded by orbiters and gfs--instead of settling on whatever chooses you? To have agency? Make it make sense. So running your mouth for 5 to 15 minutes until you get a girl to show interest is...

And if you don't get choosing signals? You're waiting lmao. But you can rationalize it however you want. Nope. I know that she'll probably like me--even if she doesn't know it yet (not always true obv--but often enough). Idgaf about what her perception is of me before I open my mouth--or...

Waiting for choosing signals is a passive mindset that limits your options and places the girl in the driver's seat. It's basically prioritizing her frame over yours. Furthermore, generally speaking, the hottest girls are going to give the least obvious interest--or even convey active...

Thank you. The entire premise of this thread is so fvcking backwards. Vast, vast majority of people--men and women and even society as a collective--are totally indifferent to your success or failure. A tiny minority of people will be actively against you--these are the people you want to avoid...