Search results

And if they do ask, would saying that you don’t want to talk about that at this point in time work?

Doing that would prevent follow up questions about my past and she wouldn’t persist until she gets an answer out of me? I’m not too opposed to stretching the truth because I do want to relocate to a new area, but don’t want to leave my hometown without ever experiencing dating in the area where...

I lost mine at 21 too. I would agree that isn’t really considered late by today’s standards. I actually told the girl that I lost my virginity to that I was a kissless virgin at 21 out of pure nervousness and she wasn’t deterred. But I do think the lack of experience is looked at differently in...

Yes and no all of what you describe would be awful and wouldn’t make me feel any better than I do now, but going through that would teach me more about relationships I’m sure. Appreciate you sympathizing with me on that. And it appears that most women agree with the point about heartbreak you...

Yeah and that’s exactly why I feel that a lot of them think why hassle with an inexperienced guy when there’s an abundance of other guys who are probably more experienced to choose from and they’re only a swipe away.

Unlikely since the overwhelming majority of women have basic relationship experience by the time they reach my age group. I’m also not talking to any women and haven’t in over 6 years. I would agree, but unfortunately women seem to think it is very useful and important. I think the chances of...

There is so much truth to this. I feel like my mental health is in pretty bad shape from having never been in love or dated anyone by age 30. I wouldn’t ever resort to violence because of this, but I can definitely feel the negative effects on my mental health.

I don’t think it would be an all-in-one solution, but being alone all the time does weigh on me and I do think I would feel better than I do right now. Everyone else I know has had a relationship and I’m the only one who’s been alone their whole life, so it isn’t even something that they could...

Wow I didn’t even know there was someone else like me on the forum. I feel your pain man, are you concerned about women being turned off by your lack of experience as well?

This is 100% me. 30 years old, never had a girlfriend and no dating experience. Turned to drugs and alcohol because I first got depressed by it back when I was 16 and wanted to be numbed, been doing that frequently ever since. Also feel like I’m now stuck in a catch-22 inescapable situation...

I mean I shared this as an example to how most women feel about inexperienced men. Yeah it could be modified for more views as you describe, but I still feel that most women look down on inexperienced men.

I mean I could do that here on this thread but doing those things doesn’t make me more experienced with women. I could still get rejected for inexperience despite accomplishing all of those things.

Bumping this thread because I made this the day before I left for an Aaron Clarey style recon mission to see other parts of the country (I’m gonna post a thread in a different category about what I learned from it) and didn’t have time to keep up with this thread. I still stand by what I said in...

Came across this video recently and this is exactly what I’m afraid of happening to me and I can’t help but assuming it will. This is a clip from a social experiment video and the second one is the full video. In this video, the women were blindfolded and kissed each man to rate who was the best...

That’s true, and I’ve even seen some blackpilled guys openly admitting that they want underage girls because they have a low notch count or are still virgins and have no baggage. They even fully acknowledged that they would be breaking the law and said they didn’t care.

I think you’re happy because you pushed yourself outside of your comfort zone. You should take it as a win even though you two didn’t talk because you proved to yourself that you can do it and that you don’t have to sit back and watch that other guy sit with her while you get angry. Maybe...

Exactly and that’s what they’ll look at first. In addition to the fact that most guys with six packs don’t have that as their first pic, so they would have to like his face and check out his other pics to even see that. When it comes to OLD, absolutely. You can’t really get a feel for someone’s...

Yep it’s like due to inflation in the dating world, it has become “just be GigaChad” This is true, and he could only be one swipe away. That’s why a lot of women will continue to use OLD in secret to try and level up from the guy they already did find from OLD. Them getting bored is also why...

That’s insane but goes to show that even average tier women have dozens of guys matching with her and sending messages. A 21 year old 8/10 probably has at least over 200 guys texting her at the same time, and that could be just from Tinder. Wouldn’t be surprised if it’s even more after factoring...

Sad but true, even jacked dudes with 6packs are struggling in the modern dating era, and OLD has a lot to do with that. Guys like that could easily have a lineup of women before OLD was a thing, but it’s just so difficult for all guys because there’s so much competition with OLD. It used to be...