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Yeah like I said, agriculture and agribusiness (organic agriculture to be exact) I’ve had an interest in it ever since I was a kid and my family roasted me for it, they tried to gaslight me into becoming a movie special effects designer in Hollywood and even made me go tour colleges in LA for...

I went to community college and I hated it with a passion, but looking back at it now, I probably went about it the wrong way. I was under the impression that you only go to get your associates degree and transfer, then I learned that I would have to take a bunch of prerequisite classes before I...

I do agree with everyone who disagrees with the notion that education is no longer important. At age 30 with no higher education and only a high school diploma, the lack of a higher education of any kind has only hurt me in the long run. I’m low income and have no career because of it. I also...

Yeah it’s never reached that point for me either, but I just feel like that’s what’s in store. Other guys who are in this situation and did make it that far said that they got written off due to not having any experience. Sometimes they talk to me first, but I’m never around any women. I’ve...

That’s true there isn’t and the middle class has been getting squeezed out for years now. That’s why I began thinking outside of the box for alternatives and came up with full time RV living, at least in the interim until I know for sure that wherever I relocate to is the right place for me...

So to summarize, you’re basically saying to lie and make up a fictional relationship history if that topic comes up. I’m less opposed to lying about it as I used to be since I want to relocate to a different state, but also don’t want to leave the area I was born and raised without dating anyone...

That is a valid point, however I don’t consider myself an incel because I don’t agree with what the incel community believes in. A perfect example of why I don’t consider myself an incel is the one that I’ve posted about here on the forum. He was known as Marshall Mathers the 4th before YouTube...

I definitely wouldn’t let them know. The biggest issue is if they bring up the subject of past relationships and dating history. From what I’ve been told on this thread, adamantly refusing to talk about that probably wouldn’t work and there’s so way I’m just gonna admit that I’m inexperienced...

I get what you’re saying, the point I was trying to make is that I’m so far behind on doing what you describe that I’ve felt that most women are not gonna have the patience for that and I will get nexted by pretty much all of them and the risk will never come with reward.

Yeah that wouldn’t surprise me either. It seems like a lot of men are losing their virginity at a later age these days. Maybe this is due to the way that the dating landscape has changed thanks to OLD, and also the 80-20 rule but I don’t think that has as much truth as incels like to believe it...

Because I still live at home with my parents, I don’t have a career and only do DoorDash for work at the moment, and I don’t really have any friends. If I was in my early 20’s still, those first two probably wouldn’t be so bad but I feel like they really look bad at 30 and that would become...

That’s exactly how I feel now and I’m kicking myself for not doing anything in my 20’s. I mean yeah I lost my virginity during that time and fooled around a little bit with one other girl one time, but that’s the extent of what I experienced in my 20’s. And I don’t want my 30’s to be the same...

Basically the same way you look at losing money at the casino. I’ve gotten plenty of monetary disappointments from casinos over the years and I’m sure the monetary loss from a failed date would be less than what I lose at the casino.

Honestly I don’t think I’ve ever done that. I got into this situation in the first place because I had my confidence with women destroyed and then continually bruised as I was growing up. This whole concern over inexperience didn’t start until I was 20 and I’m an idiot for not doing anything to...

1. I will admit that I feel it isn’t right to give up without even trying. I’ve never even asked anyone out, I just feel discouraged since I’m so far behind for my age. 2. I agree, it is a lot more common than it used to be compared to previous generations and it doesn’t seem to be a trend...

So you’re saying confident inexperienced men are less likely to get rejected?

Well I’m never around women so I don’t ever get to do that. But if I’m at the store and there’s a girl my age as a cashier, I have no problem exchanging pleasantries with her. I also had a job at a horse racetrack last summer, which let me approach women every workday and they would also...

It seems that women have a different perspective and think that it is important though. Don’t get me wrong, I agree with what you said about it, but it just seems women have a different opinion on its importance and do value dating experience. I wouldn’t necessarily say that I’m using it as a...

What about if it isn’t on a first date? Is it still a bad idea to say it that way even if the past relationships topic gets brought up on a subsequent date? I guess that would be better than just adamantly saying you’re not gonna talk about that right now because if you get defensive, it will...

Y Yeah if you keep getting repeatedly rejected because of it, that would get to me for sure.