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That was my experience too and yeah it was miserable. That was another bad thing about community college is that living at home is your only option.

That’s so true. I never had anyone in my life to tell me that and I totally feel like one of the most miserable men on earth now and I use drinking and smoking just to be numb and help cope with the situation I’m in. Yeah that meme is totally false. If you don’t set yourself up to reach your...

Me and someone else on here were just talking about the matriarchal thing. It seems that men who don’t have a good male role model or father and a majority of the upbringing was done by his mother, he ends up an adult virgin or will struggle with women for a long time. You do have to be...

Our stories are pretty similar. I wouldn’t even allow myself to develop an interest in any of the girls at my school. I didn’t want to fool myself into thinking I actually had a chance with anyone since I felt that rejection was guaranteed. I had family members and friends asking me if there was...

That’s sad but true these days. OLD and social media have inflated women’s standards to absurd levels. Also the fact that they have dozens of men in their phone who are trying get with them and you have to compete against all of them, so it’s no surprise they see what you described as the bare...

Yeah but it was nearly 10 years ago. That’s also the only date I’ve ever been on. That definitely makes it tough because most women either of us come across will have more experience than us and find that unappealing that she’s the more experienced one. I think you’ve said before that you live...

That’s a good warning to give. I myself have used my background as a cautionary tale to men younger than me when given the chance. I bought into the BS claims that there’s no problems with finding a partner later in life and that getting started with dating at an older age won’t be any more...

What is your warning?

I completely agree. Even when attaining all of what you described that guy has, you can still have no success with women. Who knows, it could be his looks or personality that’s turning them off, or it could be the fact that he’s inexperienced. I’ve heard from women who have said even if a guy is...

No I’ve genuinely tried to help the guy and give him advice and so do other people. But when people try to reach out and genuinely want to help him, he just gets angry and blocks them. After getting fed up with the trolling, he finally went out and got a job since the trolls said they’d back off...

Oh no I know that you’re not insulting me, you’re familiar with this situation too and know how much of a disadvantage it can put you in. I’ve always wanted a relationship, but I also do want to date around and play the field to see what’s out there. I don’t want to settle down with the first...

Yeah I know and that’s the problem, I have none of the selling points that makes an older man appealing to younger women. Then women closer to my age would want a man to have more dating experience in addition to an income and career like they do, so they would write me off too. Older women...

You did a little more than me back then and yeah the risk of getting humiliated was definitely something that held me back and stopped me from trying. I did either shut down opportunities or due to the fact that I had no guidance or male role model to help me, I was completely oblivious to the...

I agree and it’s been so difficult to fix. As I go down the recovery path, eventually my libido goes way up and I get demoralized since I know that because of the other aspects of my life that will turn women off, I won’t be having sex with women anytime soon. My current life situation keeps me...

Nope, just an online community on YouTube that I follow. It’s all centered around Marshall.

I don’t know man, this video parodying him had me laughing so hard. The guy who did it said that he can relate to Marshall Mathers the 4th since he’s 40 and has never had a real girlfriend. Marshall is 27 and this guy wants him to get his sh*t together while he’s still younger.

I have learned a lot of hard truths from SS, that’s for sure. Because I found out that I had PIED 10 years ago and felt that I was too damaged from all of the porn and masturbation for seduction to ever give me the results I’m looking for. I’ve lost close to 40 lbs of body fat so even though I...

I can relate, that’s why I wanted to reply. I don’t have ASD, but I do have low confidence and never learned how to properly interact with women during the formative years. This is my list: I still live at home with my parents My political beliefs aren’t extreme, but the party I vote for is...

Most people who watch him are doing so because its funny. Guess everyone’s a sociopath then, there’s even people who make their own videos in response to his just to troll him.

Yeah I’m pretty sure they think that the casual sex lifestyle just makes men our age look immature and pathetic, but I don’t care either. I think its to be expected that people want to sow their wild oats and have fun before getting serious and settling down. So I get annoyed when some people...