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I live in America and like SW15, I disagree and think that there’s absolutely pressure to settle down and get married in America. I’ll try and summarize it the best I can because posts tend to get long when I explain it, but I saw friends get rejected starting back in elementary with innocent...

Some fetishes are just better off never being revealed. Just ask self-admitted incel Marshall Mathers the 4th, who was stupid enough to tell the whole world that he’s into burps and farts by talking about it on YouTube!

The pre-selection thing is all too real. As a guy who’s never dated at an adult age, women become very skeptical of you because no other women have ever dated you at your older age. They start to assume something must be wrong with you that is causing women to not get involved with you and they...

This stood out to me, so I wanted to quote it. As a guy who’s 31 and never dated, this hit home and is a pretty big concern of mine for a couple of reasons. It highlights how far behind I am since I’m still at the stage of wanting to date for fun and exploration (being a f*ck boy) while society...

Completely agree with this. As a guy who still lives at home with his parents at the age of 31, its pretty brutal and is among other reasons why I don't even bother with dating. I'm realistic and self aware enough to know that this is a pretty big turn off to a lot of women, none of them want...

I get the point you’re making, it is unheard of for a woman in her 30’s to be an inexperienced virgin in today’s dating environment. Sadly it appears that this same dating environment has created a lot of men in their 30’s who are inexperienced virgins and the women want nothing to do with those...

I’ve always felt that no action that I could take would correct it at this point the further down this path I got. I did make a lot of bad choices in the past that led to this, like going to and then dropping out of community college after high school, followed by working jobs where I either...

Yeah I know because there’s no point in any of it if you can’t get erect anyway and most men (myself included) don’t want to rely on ED meds to be able to seduce. NoFap and no porn does increase your cravings for real sex the further into it you get, and that’s where it usually all falls apart...

It’s interesting that OP is having the problems that he has because I’m a porn and masturbation addict and it has caused me to have porn induced ED. I’m actually kind of afraid to get intimate with women because I might not be able to get it up. This can happen because your brain and body’s...

Yeah it can be a cool and impressive job and all, but it could also require you to travel a lot, which would make having a dating life and especially sustaining a relationship difficult. Pretty similar to how dating and relationships can be difficult for truck drivers because they’re always...

I just turned 31 and the other day I came across this video that’s relevant to my situation, but I disagree with this guy’s advice and so did most others who wrote replies to it, so I wanted to see what everyone here thinks. This video comes from a guy named TC Prime who is trying to make it as...

Almost everyone marks the delivery as leave at my door, so I don’t even see anybody a lot of times.

It’s never truly resolved unfortunately

Sorry I didn’t mean for this to happen. I just made one remark and it snowballed into this. I don’t want my venting to take over this whole thread since it is completely different than what OP made it about. It is true that I’m not meeting enough girls, I haven’t met any at all in the past 6...

I’m just being honest about what my reality is. Those women are going to make up a majority of my dating pool most likely. At 30, you really can’t date women in their early 20’s as easily, unless you have a good income and social status, which I have neither. And yeah, it does seem like most of...

Nah I’m not going overseas or doing the passports bros thing. I’m only interested in women here in the US, and I wouldn’t go overseas no matter how low my chances might be here.

No I don’t feel that way, but that’s what comes to mind for most women when they hear a guy has no experience. Usually women who have a decent amount of experience (which is the overwhelming majority by my age group) she can tell when a guy doesn’t have any just by his demeanor. That only...

Sure, there are times when that is the case. But more often they get turned off and run away from inexperienced men in their 30’s is due to the lack of social proof by being that old with no dating history, the lack of pre-selection from other women, a lot of them feel like they’re gonna have to...

Yep this is definitely a double standard. If a guy is 30 and has never been in a relationship and has no dating experience (the case with me and several other men these days) women see that as a huge red flag and run away from him. High value for a woman to be in this situation, extremely low...

I’ve heard of this happening too, and yes porn is a major culprit. For several men, it even gets to the point where they become interested in letting their wife/gf have sex with other men while they watch and jack it (cuck or stag-vixen) there’s a definite correlation between the ease of access...