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    Low Interest or Just Weird? You decide

    Well put imo. In your opinion does it matter that on our last date we were talking about potential ideas for a small road trip date in our near future? As in she confirmed that she'd be be down for that..
  2. J

    Low Interest or Just Weird? You decide

    I disagree. We went out a few really nice times, then I asked her out to come to my neighborhood and she rejected me (no counter). Ok. Then a couple of days later she texted me and instead of feeding into her attention seeking I brought it up again rather quickly and said let me know when...
  3. J

    Low Interest or Just Weird? You decide

    The only reason I went out of my way to go to her this much early one was because of the pandemic which I had to accept as an excuse. If it were normal times there's no way I would have done this.
  4. J

    Low Interest or Just Weird? You decide

    Just following up on a plate I've been working with over the last month or so. Went out several times already, however I've always gone to her. She lives 45 minutes away from me. Due to the pandemic she's nervous about taking public transportation and meeting me what would be halfway in the...
  5. J

    When She Never Asks You Out

    She has not had many bfs. She told me the longest relationship she's ever had was one year. So, I get there may be some inexperience with regards to how to communicate well with guys, but I also feel like common sense should come into play. For a girl that has shown clear signs of being into me...
  6. J

    When She Never Asks You Out

    That's the thing - I ain't volunteering much at all. When we hang out sure I share some stuff but I'm not talking a mile a minute giving her every detail about me and my life. But something as simple as a text convo yesterday that I was referring to in my initial post. She had gone away for the...
  7. J

    When She Never Asks You Out

    She does not act disinterested at all. She's never flaked yet, and seems 100% into it when we hang out. She's told me she's told all her friends about me, etc. Just starts getting to me after a while when I feel like I'm doing ALL the work. Very unusual to see, at this age at least. As @bcude...
  8. J

    When She Never Asks You Out

    Been dating this chick for over a month now. Been on 5 good dates. She's 29 and a tad inexperienced in my opinion. Something that's really started to get to me though now that we're on the horizon of the 6th date (sex likely coming very soon but she's super conservative with it) is what seems...
  9. J

    When Her Ex Still Follows Her on Social Media

    I don't care how well the first few dates went or what she's said. You must proceed with caution. Clearly she's not completely done with this guy and if you think he hasn't tried texting her again since "the summer" you are wrong. Chances are he's texting her right now telling her how hot she...
  10. J

    My worst nightmare

    not the best odds lol
  11. J

    Hair Systems

    For all you thinning/bald guys out there I'm curious what your take on them are. Of course I'm not talking about circa 1980's hairpieces here but instead the modern day hair "systems" that look completely realistic that actors also wear for appearances. You may have seen videos on YouTube...
  12. J

    LTRs and problems with intimacy

    Harsh but likely true.
  13. J

    My worst nightmare

    I understand totally about you freaking out. I would be too. But in reality this was 8 years ago and this person has no hard evidence. For all the cops know you don't even know this woman. Ignore her. If she contacts you threatens you can threaten to take legal action against her for fraud.
  14. J

    Should I Ask Her Out One Last Time?

    We hit it off on Okcupid, talked for a good bit before the date, and the date itself went very well, so I thought. Afterwards I began sensing low interest and late responses. I kept it cool though and went in for a second date invite a couple days later. I asked for a specific day (a Thursday)...
  15. J

    How Badly Did I Screw This Up?

    I can promise you there was no acting weird/AFC in front of her. It was only two dates. I barely even had time to potentially screw up lol. In addition, she even confirmed some interest after both said dates.
  16. J

    How Badly Did I Screw This Up?

    Her ghosting wasn’t her being malicious. It was more of another thing... Avoidance. Allow me to explain: After the two great dates, the girl did legitimately like me, at least to some sort of an extent, as several of details within the story rightfully supported. The great chemistry, the...
  17. J

    How Badly Did I Screw This Up?

    Back with a final update on this thread if anyone was interested in giving their two cents. I have copied and pasted my original post editing it to include the update. Got a message from a single mom of a 3 year old son on Match.com. Never married. Always had zero interest in them aside from...
  18. J

    I am broken - Marriage Decision Must be Made

    1 - Do not settle down with this girl. Your frame of mind is nowhere near that of someone ready to get married. 2 - I feel you on the weight gain topic. It's a touchy subject but sadly it's just reality for American women these days. They get comfortable after being in a relationship, don't...
  19. J

    How Badly Did I Screw This Up?

    I feel where you're coming from, but I also feel like you missed the point.
  20. J

    How Badly Did I Screw This Up?

    Calm down there, jack. Yes I have avoided them. If you read what happened you’d understand this was a very rare, and an odd occurrence.
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