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I appreciate everyone’s thoughts on the subject. Spaz, I hear you, but I also don’t think it’s fair to lump all single moms into this one category, making them all out to be phonies. How do we know a single mom can’t add value to a mans life and be a great thing? (Especially if she’s a smoke...

I'm assuming you're anti single moms? :lol:

Asking her what's changed is a weird beta type move. She will not find that attractive. It's obvious what happened here, and even if its not there's nothing to lose after a ghost job. Sending one text message being direct and telling her that I hope she didn't get the wrong idea about all the...

Invite myself over her home to hang out with her and her kid after 2 dates and me likely being in the dog house? Yeah single mom or not something tells me that’s not a great idea.

I know. This is why I messaged her the next night asking her OUT instead of back to my place. Then I got the whole wishy wash type response. If I could get her out somehow one more time I would absolutely flip the script. But aside from that what else am I suppose to do? Can’t be sending her...

Well i’d at least appreciate your insight on if you think I screwed this up instead of just saying to get over it. In any event, I will not be texting her next week. The ball was put directly in her court after me asking her out on back to back days. My work is done imo

Got a message from a girl on Match.com Saw she was a single mom and have always had zero interest in them aside from potential hit and quits. I quickly went the flirty route to try and feel her out, not directly mentioning sex, but calling her gorgeous, saying we can go back to my place for a...

I think the best way to go forward is to not care as others mentioned above. Regardless of what she did a while back, it doesn't change the fact that she's not my wife, gf or anything serious. Reality is she doesn’t owe me anything right now. In the (albeit rare) event that we ended up becoming...

In any other situation I would never ever say a word or care in the slightest. It’s the fact that there is history between us and this ex. Not only that, but when there was an initial chance at rekindling shortly after this first happened I told her she’d have to delete him. Make no mistake she...

Not sure what you're implying exactly. Does it all look good? Hell no. But it doesn't mean for CERTAIN she's going to pull a similar stunt again. That being said, I don't think I'm even going to give her the chance to. She's also on two dating apps for what its worth. I do think she's seriously...

Believe me I know there's that possibility, and even if its a 1% possibility I ain't putting myself at risk. I am hesitant to even ask her out for one date of drinks bc of this. I almost feel like she has some gall to reach out to me seeing as how she's still friends with him on there. Also...

Long story short a girl who was casually dating me last year went back to her ex and now she's back in my life. We reconnected while out this past weekend with some friends and she has been sending me positive signals via text ever since. SHE suggested talking more sometime when we were out, and...

I get that. I get all that. I know I'm a catch and that plenty of girls would be lucky to have me and all I can offer. Well aware of that. I've learned a lot over the years. Still doesn't change the fact that this situation stung hard and getting back out there isn't exactly a cake walk...

Thanks for the compliment. It's just that at 30 years old going on 31, it gets harder to have that mindset of "forget her and move on", especially when I couldn't have been more attracted to her and we were getting along so well. Your point is she's not WITH me, so obviously she's not into me...

Thanks everyone for chiming in and giving your two cents, even if I didn't completely agree with some of them. This was all just a very hard situation for me bc I really liked this girl a lot, more than anyone else in recent years (yes, sue me, I developed real feelings for a girl after a few...

I'm not texting the girl.

Smh. All I'm saying is that 9 times out of 10 a girl who is NOT over her long term ex that just dumped her beforehand will not choose new guy of a couple of months. She likely DID want to be with me/come back to me, but I got mad and put pressure on her instead of backing up. Then she took off.

First of all I'm aware of what a honeymoon phase is. Second, I really cannot back you up on your comments, as appreciative as I am for you trying to care. I'll say it one more time. This woman was NOT over her ex. I truly believe it had NOTHING to do with me. She TOLD me that, over and over. Did...

I dated her for 3 months. She dated this ex for 2 YEARS and it ended shortly before me. It was likely lost cause for me from the start unless I was the greatest DJ on earth. She wasn't ready to truly move on yet. She wasn't completely over him. If I were with her for a YEAR and she bowed out to...

Ok fair enough, but please understand and trust that this woman felt like something special to me in these 3 months. She didn't dump me bc I wasn't a good guy with no game. She said I was amazing. She left bc of unfinished history with an ex. This is a hard pill to swallow knowing that had I...