LTRs and problems with intimacy

[logicallefty]

Now let's imagine outcome of this situation if its a single mother that would need to answer this question of 16y old daughter...

I am not perfect but I know one thing, a woman wouldn't have been as objective as I was. I wanted to tell her she was being stupid for thinking of dumping the BF for some punk video game playing kid, but I didn't put my bias into it. It was tough but I did what I had to do as a good dad (hopefully).

 

[JST8828]

It’s more than likely simpler than that. Getting into LTRs because he’s been taught to. Not because he wants to.

Harsh but likely true.

 

[2Rocky]

What about novelty in OTHER parts of your life? Frequently change jobs? Or same job, same routine every day?

Maybe scuttling relationships is easier than growing in your career or finding new challenges in your current position?

When there is excitement and uncertainty outside your relationship sometimes the relationship is what grounds you...