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    Never really thought about style until now...

    Opinions on these? Looking for brown dressy casual with jeans, chinos, or cords. http://www.allenedmonds.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/producti_SF4046_1_40000000001_-1_#
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    Going on a trip with people who I don't know

    Is the trip to a place that you want to visit? Did the one you know ask you to go on the trip? If so, he/she probably told the other 3 that you're quiet, and they're cool with it. Plus, IMO, it's easier to be the quiet one in a large group since there is less pressure for you to carry the...
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    How to deal with vague "busy" responses

    Good luck, let us know how it goes!
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    How to deal with vague "busy" responses

    Don't ask next time. Just set a date/time/place and tell her to meet you then. If she declines with no counter offer, try again in a week. If the same thing happens, then next her
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    Online dating: is she a time waster?

    If she responds to you at all, assume she's interested. Are you suggesting meet ups on the first message? That's too soon. Wait until you're a few messages in before you do that. Food for thought: http://www.daveglenn.com/2011/03/dave-glenns-guide-to-online-dating/
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    Club game is all about looks

    G Money Homeslice, do you even lift?
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    Never really thought about style until now...

    GotED, thanks for your post. Should I be looking for something like these? http://www.amazon.com/Area-Forte-6660-Montana-Lace-Up/dp/B003VTZUE8/ref=sr_1_2?s=shoes&ie=UTF8&qid=1389398351&sr=1-2&keywords=area+forte+men+shoes...
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    Never really thought about style until now...

    Awesome...thanks again pierce!
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    Never really thought about style until now...

    Thanks Pierce, I was hoping you'd provide some feedback. I have a problem with what I quoted; I'm 35 and still gravitating towards the young athletic jock look. I guess it's time to grow up a bit more, at least in my taste in clothes. So, thanks for the insight. Thanks for the links to the...
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    Never really thought about style until now...

    Until we get a style forum, I'll use this thread. I need some help with my swag. Looking for a versatile, brown shoe I can wear with jeans, chinos, or cords. I'm not really into moccasins, boat shoes, or chukkas. I'm thinking something like these...
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    I fell in love with F buddy

    Where is this coming from? Is she falling for you, and/or are you being too clingy?
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    POF Chatting

    This is a great lead, in both online and IRL conversations. Depending on the topic, I usually ask something along the lines of "X seems interesting to me, [specific but open-ended question about X]?" Throw in some humor for good measure. Example: So you graduated with a psychology degree...
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    Women lose Interest after I go out with them

    Do you have a link to a guide/walkthrough/something on this? Thanks
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    Need help, I'm needy through texts but not in person

    No, don't confirm! That gives her a chance to flake. On friday noon-ish, text her "I'll pick you up at X". Don't initiate any texts until then, not to confirm, not to chat, nada. If she texts you before then, keep your responses short/funny... leave her wanting more. Too much texting = too...
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    Do you guys have ways of cueing yourself into a confident mood?

    Get plenty of sleep! “Fatigue makes cowards of us all.” - Gen. George S Patton
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    An Intoduction and my story

    Dude you sound like me; 6+ year LTR crashed and burned and I was devastated. It literally took me YEARS to recover, glad you're not making that same mistake. Focused my pain on furthering my career, education, and fitness, so I became financially independent at 32, masters degree, done some...
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    Seeing all the signs need to turn it around

    Sounds like this could be salvaged; you're still sexual and she says the love yous. I've been in the reverse situation, woman with lots of drama & baggage. The other person only has so much patience & stamina before the baggage starts to weigh them down. Soon, hanging with the other person...
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    My date

    Cool. How did that strategy work out for you? ;)
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