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Too much, too soon, too clingy. I would have waited 3-5 days then asked, especially since she didn't seem too keen about the hand holding. Now that the damage is done, and you like this chick, wait a week, then call her up for a second date. If she declines with no counteroffer, delete her...

She's got you acting like a b*tch because you're holding on too tight. So you're stalking her on facebook and acting all jealous? Yet you won't ask her out? Come on man. And please stop with the "xoxo"s! The other dude is (or soon to be) her new FB and/or being used to make you jealous...

This.

I'm no expert, but why didn't you ask her out on that 15 minute phone call? That was the time to strike. She doesn't want to be text/chat buddies, she wants your c*ck. As for now, I'd wait a few days, then call her up and ask her out. Keep the chit chat to a minimum, the objective is to...

Cool story bro. BTW, my cat's name is Mittens. http://www.troll.me/images/futurama-fry/not-sure-if-trolling-or-being-serious.jpg

http://www.stevepavlina.com/articles/courage-to-live-consciously.htm

Atom, I'm starting down a similar road, but I have an internal conflict regarding gaming women I have little interest in. I definitely need to sharpen my axe as well, but playing chicks for the sake of playing just seems wrong to me. Then again, I read that they love the drama, so maybe I'm...

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So to conclude the story, I initiated a quick makeout session when I got to her place to pick her up, then after dinner I dropped her off at her place and got out of there ASAP...way too many red flags for me to continue with this one. I didn't even want to make out or try to fvck, I was so...

I'm no expert, but what I see is that she wants to celebrate new years with you and then for you to fvck her.

FWIW, your post helped me, and other lurkers like me. So, thanks! :up:

I'm not too worried about rekindled feelings. Too much bad sh*t has gone down in my relationship with her, and I harbor too much resentment. When she starts with the crazy BS, I can cut her off without blinking, just like I did the last couple of times. Damn, after re-reading that, it sounds...

Mission complete! even fvcked twice :woo: I'm not trying to get her back, or string her along. I made this crystal clear to her, and I was 100% honest. She knows I'm spinning other plates. She's still got mad feelings for me though, that could be a problem. But she knows what I'm...

Nice. You were right. And now it's pretty obvious to me that she's ripe for the picking. Thanks again Don, you da man! :up:

So we went NC until today (last time we spoke was after our last date on Weds) Her: Did I scare you off? 2:06 PM Me: If I say no, will you promise not to beat me, you scary woman you :P 2:56 PM [banter] Her: In all seriousness though- are you into it? Over it? I feel like I'm picking up some...

Just picture your #1 plate banging someone else right now. Then act accordingly :)

This might be helpful: http://www.daveglenn.com/2011/03/dave-glenns-guide-to-online-dating/

I'm no expert, but since you're in a relationship with her now, have you tried having a conversation with her about it? Maybe she's shared sh!tless (weren't we all the first time?) and needs someone to show her the way. I probably wouldn't mention the other chicks throwing themselves at you...

Long story short: after a 14 mo LTR, I broke it off two months back and went NC. Now I want to turn this one into a FWB while I spin other plates. No way this will ever be a successful LTR. I'm hoping this will help me 1-be more selective in my selection of new plates and 2- keep my...

Yes, the logic being that you'd be able to recover easier on a date, or she would be much less likely to misinterpret what you're saying. Like doing C&F via text where she couldn't tell if you were joking or not, then she might assume you're an ahole, then ghosting/gone forever. here's my...