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Too soon for what? It's like she doesn't want to go out with me but she's very keen for me to go out with her and her friends...

So I went on a first date with this girl. Nothing happened, just a lunch date, so I asked if she wanted to go to a bar this weekend. She asks if her friends are invited too, so I suggested that she come for a drink with me first and then meet her friends after. She takes a while to respond and...

I kinda get it. You are being more decisive with women so if you don't have lots of options (or find a good one) then it feels like you're not getting anywhere. Like you are being overly harsh instead of sticking with them? But in the long-run, you will get a better class of women because of...

So I already knew I should have got the number and not used fb. I also don't think that analysing it is a waste of time. I'm quite happy to accept that she lost interest but I really think she might have thought I was a **** because I kinda flirted with her friend at the party. She was also...

Firstly, I obviously liked this girl and no one likes to be turned down but I'm more interested in learning lessons, so that's why I'm analysing it. I was thinking she might have a boyfriend now too but then why accept? One of my friends said I waited too long but I don't really get that...

So, I went to this house party and met a few girls. There was one I particularly liked but I didn't ask for her number. Afterwards, my friend said she told him she (and her friend) were interested in me and I should add her on fb. (Note, I hate fb for stuff like this but there was no other way...

In terms of your fear/lack of confidence, it is caused by negative thinking about the future. So you're thinking about how you will be laughed it if you mess up rather than being confident that you will succeed. You have to think positively, imagine things going really well, whatever it is...

Fair enough. Agree, good call on leaving it with her rather than chase her up about it. You've given her a chance at least, she might surprise you!

I'd say you're probably right but maybe she works weekends or something? There could be a number of reasons why she doesn't know if she's free although the fact that she didn't give you a reason would suggest there isn't one. Why don't you text her on friday and see whether she wants to go out...

Thanks Juicy, yeah, she doesn't have to be a good girl but not too much of a slut. Where do you recommend looking then? I've never really been a fan of the club scene for that but i'm not sure where the best places to go are.

I also go for girls who haven't been with too many men just because it means they have high standards and don't just give it away and it means they place high value in personality and relationships so I agree with you although a girl who's been with 2 men max is probably difficult to find. I'd...

I think i'm quite picky but your numbers aren't far off. At a guess I'd say 25-30% are attractive but i'd probably only go for about 10% based on looks alone. If a girl was in the cute category, she could make up the rest in personality. I tend to think the face is most important though. I also...

OK, thanks for the advice. I'm 21 and actually I always viewed girls who go to clubs and pick up random guys as slvts basically, whether I was interested in them or not but i'm trying to decide whether I've had it wrong or not. I don't really know, she might have known this other guy for a while...

You don't seem to understand what i'm asking. I got her number that night. I would expect her to be able to wait for me to call her the next day or whenever. Like I said, I didn't want anything to do with her but I feel that may have been a harsh view, that's why I'm asking for opinions. I...

Yeah, my point is I wanted a relationship and then desided against it because, like I said I stay away from girls who are easy. I've sort of changed my views abit recently though but I still don't know whether I could have a relationship with someone who likes you and then sleeps with someone...

TRSX, that was pretty much what I was expecting to hear. Fact is, I don't really believe in banging a girl on the first date or whatever. If that makes me beta, so be it. If I wanted to bang her, i'm sure I could. Let's say you want a relationship with the girl in this situation. Is it likely...

There was this hot girl (Sarah) a while back that I wanted to get with but in the end it never happened and I didn't really care but I was wondering recently whether I was too harsh. Basically, we liked each other but I was playing it cool and then one night I saw her in a club and we talked...

Just to clarify, i'm not saying dating 21 year olds would be weird, just that it might be perceived that way by some if you're one of a handful of mature students in a class of 200 20-somethings.

Of course you like women that are younger than you and don't want to date women with kids etc. You were right first time, who cares about leagues. Going for hot young girls might be more difficult but don't lower your standards and settle. Just forget about the age thing as there are plenty hot...

Yeah, sounds like she was probably going to give you her number so wait until she gets a new phone. As suggested, if that's all she said probably best to see if she responds but if theres an opportunity to carry on messaging her on facebook you might aswell, see if she seems keen. Try and ask...