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Right, I added her on facebook and thought I might aswell be direct so asked if she fancied going for coffee. This was a day and a half ago and nothing so she's obviously not interested. It's just that I feel a bit **** not because she's not interested but that I didn't even get a reply. I mean...

Right, I messed up as she wasn't at the library today and is now finished exams so I won't see her again. However, I happen to have seen her on Facebook. I wouldn't normally but seeing as I have no other option should I add her and ask her for coffee?

Thanks smooth. Yeah obviously i'm going to talk to her again and see what her reaction is and go from there. She seemed nice enough anyway and I was going to suggest we get some coffee as a revision break but I wasn't sure if it was too soon. Also, I imagine getting asked out in the library is a...

Just talked to her about work as everyone is doing exams but I had important work to do myself so didn't speak for too long. Not sure about her body language, nothing too noticeable, she smiled and was possibly nervous if anything. Wasn't the most exciting convo but at least it was something. I...

OK, so I actually spoke to her today. It ended up just a quick convo and I meant to speak to her again later on but I had to leave. I feel like I should have just gone for it but I dunno. At what point is acceptable to then go for a number. Anyway, I thought I got a decent reaction although she...

Would it be really bad if I asked one of her friends, who I don't know to pass on my number or whatever...she's seen me before so if she's interested, she might say yes, right? I realise this is a crap way to do it but would it be so rediculous, i've seen girls do it.

Thanks, Nicholas, much appreciated. You have to understand that I know that everything you are saying is right I just haven't got balls as you rightly say, not in this situation anyway. And when I say line, it was just an idea to get the convo going, not a pickup line. Let's say I know i'm never...

OK lads, let's be honest, i've bottled it up to now and uni is nearly finished so won't get much more opportunity, if any. I thought of a good line but the more I said it, it sounded stupid...but i was going to go for it anyway except the library was really quiet and I thought it might put her...

I wouldn't have expected it to be that high to be honest...maybe you're just a pro!

If a fairly good looking girl asked me out, I reckon there'd be a good chance (like over 50%) i'd at least go for a drink with her if she came across as pleasant, funny, whatever and I have quite high standards. What do you reckon the chances are when the guy is asking the girl out, just out...

Well, she was in the library again today and pretty much sat opposite me at a computer. I smiled at her a couple of times to try and gauge her reaction. I can't say it was particularly positive, but not negative. Not sure. At least I know she saw me and acknowledged me. The problem was, she was...

Thanks Robyn. I agree with most of what you have said and I have read all of the replies, most were helpful and I am going to use some of the advice given. However, with regards cheesy lines, I know a guy who gets plenty of girls but if you watch him in a club it's so cringy and the girls he...

Exactly Serg! I wanna be able to say the right thing at the right time. But, failing that, maybe better to have a plan for an introduction, especially seeing as breaking the ice is my main problem.

Yeah, seems like you should apologise fir taking it too far and go from there. Her reaction may have been ott but it was understandable.

To add to this I recently met a hot girl who I reckon I have a shot with and we have a mutual friend which is handy. I plan to ask her out when I get the chance but I see this other girl at the library like every day so it's been on my mind and bugging me that I should talk to her. Best to keep...

You say that but I am friendly, I just don't make a habit of talking to every stranger I come across. If we had a mutual friend or a reason to talk there would not be any problem. I agree that I should just go talk to her but you must see why that could be weird for her?

Thanks guys. Yeah, the cheesy lines might work but thats kind of what I'm trying to avoid. Something more natural would work much better for me. I also realise that just waiting for something to happen is a bad way to go about it.

Thanks, I actually don't really care that there's a fair chance she'll say no but I have a problem with how I'll come across just approaching someone I've never met before.

Actually, that's quite good! And something I would actually say. My problem is I always wait for the right moment so should I just go up to her or wait for a better opportunity?

Hi, there's this really hot girl that goes to my university library every day. I'm pretty sure she's noticed me but I haven't been able to start a conversation with her. I was hoping to maybe just bump into her eventually, maybe while she was having lunch but it never happened and I would feel...