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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Got the happy birthday text haha! Bright and early. Laughed, deleted, and moving forward.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Unless youre completely emotionally removed, don't do it. You're still opening up that wound. Youre probably still emotionally invested because you're posting here. If you can do it and not feel a damn thing..I say do it..especially if she has a boyfriend and she cheated on you with him. Just...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    You're right. Im going to. Im going to spend the weekend carbing up on lots of birthday cake oreos, ice cream, and sugar wallz:rock: :rock: :rock: I'm feeling pretty damn good today. I am now to the point where I hope she DOESNT contact me. Thanks man. I will report how the weekend goes.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thank you, Mauser. True knowledge right here. I appreciate it a lot. I am moving forward. Everything you said is spot on. I may not exactly like hearing it, but it's what I need to hear. Its going to take some time for me to process this completely, but I will. Thanks again. You're exactly...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Just caught her driving by my work...completely out of her way. Maybe coincidence and I am probably reading too far into that, but still...kind of gave me a chuckle...she didnt see me, but I saw her...and it's way out of her way.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I've banged a few since the whole split up/debacle that took place in February. Three? Not quite ten but...idk...it's just hard to move on completely, but I have one who really wants to be with me. She talks of our future, it's just she doesn't know where her job may take her. She lives three...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Mauser, drop your knowledge on me please!
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thank you! I'm trying to stay busy. I just have this lingering fear/thought. I'm going to have completely moved on and forgotten it when she comes and says I want to be with you and put our family back together. How do I deal with that!? I mean, I laid it out clearly like neither of us had...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Someone eslap me! Wtf!? Having those pathetic feelings and urges of texting her! Wtf am I thinking! I miss her really bad! Today makes 6 weeks no contact.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thanks! It will be a challenge but today has been a great day. Haven't spoke about her much, just fighting thoughts of her in my mind. Which is an every day thing. Hoping something changes. I know this is a process but I hate not being able to talk to my daughter like I used to. Or see her like...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Enjoy your date tonight! Try not to think of the ex and if so, just remember, there is a beautiful young lady across from you that wanted to spend time with you. Your ex didn't. Maybe the last date was just a bad date. They happen.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Change your number? Seriously man. I find it funny that we can easily give advice to others, but it's hard to follow that same advice in our own situation. Seriously cut contact with this chick. Are you talking to other women? Im not saying you have to bang em, although that would help, but get...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Who gives a **** if she knows or not! This is about you. Don't just tell her, because you'll talk to her anyways, just do it. Actions speak louder than words!
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    You have to completely remove yourself! Block ALL forms of communication! Even if you let her see that you've read a message, she knows you've taken the time to read it. You have to disappear. Seriously. Completely! It will drive her crazy! Say nothing and do nothing! She's jerked you around...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    It sounds like you need to walk away. Don't give her a warning. Just do it. Block her number, delete her from Facebook, everything and anything. Burn all bridges of communication. If she really wants to get ahold of you for the right reasons, she'll work her ass off to build her own bridge to...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Did you state your purpose and your intentions clearly and concisely? You want to be with her, nothing else! Not friends. State that and walk away. Don't respond to anything else. You're lucky you don't have kids with this woman. You have no reason to contact her and she has no reason to contact...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Damn, sorry Loz. Did she give breadcrumbs? What happened? How did you get sucked back in? I'm sorry you're feeling this way. Don't be anything for her but her man. No support, no nothing. Pull the rug out from under that bish! If you're done, be done, but don't let her jerk you around. You're...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    If you had nothing to do with it..she must have been sending them out. Sloots gonna sloot
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